men are just so hard to understand
By glamorous89
@glamorous89 (25)
Malaysia
4 responses
@lheynne (27)
•
1 Jul 11
they are hard to understand because women do not have the same wavelength with men. and being not in the mood is a big no no. it makes women think that there is something going on that he is not telling you like it involves another woman. i hate it when they do that. they will only call or text you when they know you are already so mad.
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@glamorous89 (25)
• Malaysia
1 Jul 11
that is what i am feeling right now, i feel unappreciated. when we're gone, they will suddenly realizing that we are special to them. it reminds me of this saying 'you will only appreciated things when they are gone'
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
1 Jul 11
I know the feeling. When I first met my boyfriend before we became serious he was a bad text-er. I would text and he would respond with like one word. I would get frustrated and then stop texting. Later I found out he has no texting ability at all. It takes him forever to find a word and then gets mad so quits trying. But 2 years later he seems to be doing a great job at it now!
@glamorous89 (25)
• Malaysia
1 Jul 11
im glad to hear that. i didnt know that man can be like that. gosh it really is frustrating to be in this situation right now. i just hope that i can get through this because i just miss him so badly.
@AgentGulaman (3546)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
Well to be honest, I just hate texting. I'd rather call than text. Seems all the guys are too lazy texting every now and then. There are many other ways to communicate, spare him the inconvenience of texting if possible. Haha!
@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
1 Jul 11
@glamorous89: Agreed with agentgulaman here. I would rather call than texting my girl. Or perhaps I would skype her - anything but texting! But I found that typing is easier for me, perhaps that's the effect when you are at myLot for too long! I would consider sending an email to her after this. 
Chatting will do as well.
Chatting will do as well. @livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
1 Jul 11
@glamorous89: Men are totally different from women. If women find that not calling him for a day or two seems inappropriate, some men would think, "That's normal for me. I don't call her most of the time. She called first!". But for women, it is a crime for them. Different gender appreciates love differently. Women would appreciate their loved ones by calling everyday, showing that they care for their men. Men don't do that.
Perhaps your man has something more urgent to do. 
@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
3 Jul 11
@surfer222: I believe in that as well. What I am trying to say is, men is not like women. Women might feel offended when we are not calling them even for some days, but I believe that is not the case for most men. Nevertheless, women also as per your say have their rhythm so calling every day every time is really not a good idea.
No offense, though.
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
2 Jul 11
FYI not all women appreciate when we call everyday, trust me some women find that irritating for men to call them every day but some of them appriciate it, so you need to 'feel her rythm' regarding call, texting, seeing and all that...
@marcusalex89 (81)
• Indonesia
2 Jul 11
If you miss him, you can text him first, make a first move is legal. The reason why they were like that, because, they are men. Easy. You should understand him :)
