Nobody wants you... :(
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
Philippines
July 1, 2011 7:56am CST
Sometimes when I work, I felt neglected by people around me. minding their own business and having their own gossips. but the sad part was, I heard one of them saying "no body wants me"
Who the hell they think they are. that was the saddest thing that supposed to be a friend of mine should be saying to me. ever since then i stop talking to her and decided to accept my boss offer to transfer me to another department and have another training there.
I got so depressed after that.so gladly didn't tell any secrets to that biatch
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
1 Jul 11
Yeah not a very nice thing to say. Maybe she was jealous, after all maybe she wanted the promotion / tranfer that you had gotten. It's sad when you hear coworkers talking about you behind your back, I know I would hate it. I've never caught a coworker doing that though.
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
she didn't say that in front of me but i was at the back of the wall. it was so sad but i learn to move on easily. people in the office are great pretenders.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
1 Jul 11
Yes that they are. When I responded to this I had thought of one woman but I can't remeber ever hearing that she'd talked about me, though I know she talked about other people. It was quite a stressful job.
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
2 Jul 11
Its quite indeed a depressed feeling having such things office and hearing such offensive things. Well my dear friend, now dont think about what has happened what people think about you is past and history try to come out of it and see things in a positive way cause if you be in the same situation you will be worse than before you health will also be damaged and unable to make decisions on particular things. Try to make some new friends. Also the person who talked negative about you dont keep and grievance with him/her forgive him because that's the first step to come out of the depression dont hamper yourself in anyway. Also whatever others think inspite of your positive deeds dont feel but make your life going. Always have a positive attitude in every situation iam sure that will help you a lot. thanks hope i helped you all the best with your life.
@piya84 (2581)
• India
2 Jul 11
That women sounds like a bi*tch indeed.Tell her to go to hell.In offices this is common .Very much common indeed.I live in another coutnry but i think people and women esp are same everywhere.I have gone through same when i was working in hospital.Lot of politics and gossip.People trying to pull down each other by spreading lies.
You better change department and dont make friends in office.Have friend circle out of office.It works.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
Good day Mikaela_taz25,
It is really depressing if you will heard that phrase "nobody wants you".
But, as a friendly advise, perhaps try not to listen to them as long as you know what you are doing is to the best of your knowledge and for the benefit and welfare of the company. Just continue to work on. In addition, if you know that you are not violating any rules of the company, just continue what you are doing. Hence, you know that you are on the right track.
Just continue working on towards the right track. Ignore those people who are saying some negative words. In due time, they will just reap what they sow. As the holy book says, "What you sow, is what you reap.
Have a nice day!
@Rick1950 (1576)
• Lima, Peru
1 Jul 11
Well, I think no one likes others to speak ill of one but whenever this happens. There are people who feel good about speaking ill of others. That is a kind of addiction. The worst part about it is that one is hard to forget when you hear something like that. A tip would no be swayed by what others say about of you. I know it's easy to say but hope it helps. On the other hand I feel good that you have the opportunity to go to another department where you can feel better. I hope so.
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
1 Jul 11
workplace is not a good place to find a friend. Specially with the people who have the same carrier line with you. Maybe she and her friends have the same carrier line with you and feel intimidated by you.
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
1 Jul 11
Sorry that happened to you. Sometimes it's difficult to know who to trust. Hopefully you will be happier with your transfer.
Just remember also, you're there to work, not make friends. If you DO make friends along the way, that's an added bonus.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
1 Jul 11
I hope what comes around goes around. I have also experienced this kind of situation. The place I work is around my neighbourhood so when some news about me depressed were spread all over the place, people in the workplace seem to treat me like I am alien. Even we don't go to lunch together. And I feel stress out coz nobody wants me. At last also I left the company to work at home. You are not alone. Facing this kind of situation can make a person depressed. Just remember those are worthless people in your heart and you won't take it for granted, ok?
@srjac0902 (1169)
• Italy
1 Jul 11
You see sometimes we appear as somewhat superior to others without our efforts to put on airs. Sometimes we may act as superion so people do not approach us sometimes the people may be full of vanity and put on airs and they simply attract crowds and fans inspite of their arrogance. Yes our personality has megnetic force of attraction and detraction. Often it is beyond our efforts. Sometimes we must become simple and learn to get along. We are unique. We need not wear others' feathers but still knowning to get along alone will bring us peace.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
1 Jul 11
Oh it does not want anyone not very pleasant but sometimes it happens.
Do you need to find only positive things from the things that surround us.
Indeed there are so many people who are depressed by different things.
Most importantly, do not submit this depression, we can get rid of it.
Have a nice day!