HAVE I done CORRECT ???

July 1, 2011 1:05pm CST
Few days back i broke up with my girlfriend . reason ?? i dont know ..i mean its kind of follish crap . my best friend asked me about the reason today and...and i was standing there like a dumb . when i came to my home ..i just lied on my bed while thinking about this . i kept on asking my self ..was i bored with her ?? the answer came "no" . but i realised one thing .. i was not feeling happy when i was with her . i used to feel very low . she always used to suppress me . she used to pretend like i was no one to her . she used to tell what i should i do or what should i not do ! Who was she to guide me ? who was she to make better ? i never told her to do that ! NEVER ! i was feeling like i am losing myself ..i mean .. i was not what i was ! i was becoming like her ! why should i be like her when i have the option of being like myself .. this maybe the reason why i broke up with her ! i dont know what i have done is correct or not to end a relation but .... GUYS can u just tell me what i have done is correct or not ??
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Hope
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
2 Jul 11
It doesn't sound like you had a healthy relationship. Find someone that makes you feel good about yourself and the relationship. All the best!
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nurseclare
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
I think you've done the right thing. How could a girl do that to you, you're so fragile and she cant just pull you down. Everything she did was a hell of crap. She isn't your wife yet, she's just a girlfriend. Good thing you broke up with her because she might control your whole life. Just don't mind her now, instead make the most out of it. Be a good man and never let someone ruin your beautiful life. :)
LadyMarissa
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
1 Jul 11
WELCOME TO MYLOT!!! I'm not a guy & I'm not sure I followed everything you were saying. However, if you weren't happy with her & she didn't like you for who you are, then I think you did the right thing!!! Anyway, you're too young to be settling down to one girl. You should be dating different girls until you find one that likes you just for who you are & you feel the same about her!!! My rule of thumb has always been...if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't!!! One word of advice...whether you want it or not...learn more about yourself like who you are & who you're going to be & the girlfriends will follow!!! You deserve to be treated BETTER than your girlfriend was treating you!!! Expect to be respected & accept NOTHING less!!!
Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (69676)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Jul 11
There is no real correct, or incorrect reason for breaking things off with someone. That's up to the person doing the breaking off. Now there is such a thing as being in a relationship for all the wrong reasons. But, that is in the eye of the indivuatul as well. So it's really up to how you're feeling as a whole really. From my understanding that relationship left you feeling depressed and not who you wanted to be. That's a good reason to break it off. You should be happy in a relationship. Not to say relationships aren't without their flaws, but you have to find a balance of what you're willing to tolarate and what's going to push you over the edge. If you're not happy at least some of the time, then maybe you shouldn't be with that person.
ShaNichole
@ShaNichole (66)
• United States
1 Jul 11
Breaking up is hard to do, and if you were unhappy, and she wasn't willing to do things to make you happy, then it is probably best that you got out of that situation. Right now, it may feel like you lost a great love, but if you give yourself time to heal, you will recover and find someone who you are more compatable with.