I am such a LOSER!

A blessed day to you edsss. I feel so sad when I read your discussion . You are not a loser edsss. In fact, you are a blessing to others. You are such a wonderful and beautiful person and there are a lot of people loving you here. We are here for you edss. No matter what happen, whatever obstacles you face, we will be here for you, willing to help you out as much as we can. If I just only know the whole truth behind of your problem, but for now edsss just keep holding and don't lose hope. GOD is always there to help and hear all your sentiments in life. I believe all the problems that we encounter in life are just trials and challenges that we need to face. In this way, GOD will be able to test on how strong and brave you are and in this way also, you become purely dependent to GOD, having a deeper communication with his presence. Please don't give up your studies edsss. Education is the best gift you could ever have and achieve. I know it would be hard for you to understand at this point but later on when you grow up, you will realize how important your education is. Always remember that education is the key to success. To finish your studies is one of things that you can make your mom and dad proud of. I really hope and pray that you will not change your decision edsss. Sometimes we feel that there is nothing else we can do but to give up because of the problems that we encounter but always think that in every problem, there is always a solution and I am very sure that GOD will be there to help and guide you during your trying moments in life. From my deepest heart, I really love you as one of my friends here edsss and I am here to give you my best advice that I could ever give. I will put everything to GOD hoping that everything will turn out okay from your end. May the love of God abide in you, guide your steps, and confirm your heart in love. You will always be in my prayers. Keep us updated edsss.

Hi edsss, It's a fact, all people have problems of their own to deal with.It's what life is, and that makes it interesting.I know too that the Man up there won't give it to us if we can not manage to find a solution to such problem.Solving problems too do help us to be strong in dealing with whatever trials lays ahead. If I may say, your are too young to quit.Problems are part of our life and I'm sure you can find a way to deal with it.Continue with your studies I know you will have a great future ahead.Thanks for sharing.

my lady, Oh my goodness...what are you saying here? (`_`) Don't you ever think like that...Winner never QUITS! SO..NEVER QUIT! Never let anything stand along your way,you've just started,you need to finish it my lady. I know you can....I have faith in you...we you friends are always looking forward for your success!

The moment you accept it as true, then you already are. Edsss, life had a lot of ways actually to drag you down. that's what you call challenges, and for some they call it "problems"... And it is inevitable to encounter them every now and then. But real catch is not "how many challenges come, or how great they are" because truth is, it's "how you deal with them, every single time you meet them"... I can't give you much of an advice as to your problems versus your studies. So I will just give some thoughts for you to ponder on, before making a decision. 1. Do you really have to stop studying because of that personal challenge? 2. You should know your priorities. First things first. No man can serve two masters at the same time. 3. Take a step towards your goal. If it's not towards such a goal, then stop going that way. You won't get to where you want to head. 4. Ask for guidance (I don't want to be religious in here) but I do believe in GOD. So you might as well, try HIM, who knows the best for us in everything. Bless you edsss. See ya around. chuyins

Friend you are not looser this is the lesson for you and I think you will get high status or position after some years. So dont worry friend and go ahead but always remember God and pray in front of God and trust on God.

So sad to hear that girl.You are too young to give up. Whatever problem it takes, continue your studies and hold on. Your education will be important for your life in the future. Don't give up, you can do it!Go, go, go, girl.Hugs for you

Hello I think you should not interupt your education because in this way you'll be votive for rotting jobs in your life.Take away your mind and problems and finish your education.Look the study does not mean success but you must have some base and a great luck to make someting positive in your life.Do not give up.You're still so young.Have a nice day!

I think that you are still young.. only 17years old, you should continue you're studies. You have the whole life ahead of you and you wont want to start working til the end of your days now, dont you?

Bunso,my eyes widened when I saw the title of your discussion,the word LOSER doesn't fit you. And may I also remind you that you are not a QUITTER too! All of us have problems bunso,it is only us who can decide how to handle those. Your scholarship is an opportunity,don't give it up,remember it's for your future. You've already given too much time and effort with this scholarship. Ask help to our Lord bunso,tell Him to help you with it and I know He will!

hey I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you can talk to your parents about the personal problem you're having and I hope you sort out things soon and hope you won't have to drop school. Good luck.

At any cost do not give up your studies. Even though as you mentioned that you have some difficulties in your way and it is pressurising you a lot I dont think giving up the exams will be a wise decision. It happens many a times as we often want to take a break from studies for what so ever reason and then when we come back to them it is so difficult to get our concentration back on track and we regret the decision we made a few months ago. Remember where there is a will there is a way and so will there be a solution to overcome your problem. Never get let down by such things. You may be a bit down and would need to motivate yourself to get back again. Try and solve the problem first and then get back to the studies. Dont worry to much as i'm sure you will do well in the preliminary exams and will clear them with outstanding results. Good Luck and All The Best!!

hi looking at your age i would surely suggest you continue with your studies ..because at some point of time in your near future when everything brings you down with a heavy burden you will have this studies that would have fetched you good degrees to help you out by standing besides you even when others have left your side .. so whatever might be the problems pressurizing you now dont discontinue your studies because it will be these studies that will help you in future to cut out the threads of pressure from reaching and entangling you without actually letting you to enjoy various other things in life . and as for your emergencies dont so totally worry about that it will fade away sooner or later .. so dont get demotivated by it ... all your loved ones prayers are there for you

You are the best judge of your situation, but education should not be sacrificed for anything particularly at the tender age you are in. Even in an emergency, tackle the problem boldly, but continue your education later. Losing one examination is not a great loss, if you continue the education later in life. Education is a life-long endeavor. Prioritize yourself intelligently and boldly.

Hi edss I hope you'll have your problem fixed and continue your studies. Be sure to finish your studies, if you got major problems there is always a big solution in it. So don't you worry about it. I'll be praying for you. I know you can do it, Just be brave and everything will be fine,. Trust in GOD ,pray hard and just be faithful .Godbless

hi eds, I also stopped studying and it was my choice when I decided to go back it gave me lot of pain and trouble I started all over again but I never regret it (but it was really hard believe me ) If I were you don't stop believe in yourself whatever it is you can pass all this don't allow things to defeat you. happy mylotting

I only want to send you a Chinese sayings: When you share your happiness with others, the happiness will be doubled; When you talk your suffering to others, the suffering will be halved. So hope you are willing to talk about your suffering and we will solve the problem to you. Any way, considering carefully and never give up once you have made a decision.

hi edss17 try to ask some help to your other relatives or on your parents , seek from advice from your friends also i know what you feel because i also have a personal problem which it involved my studies. but do not loose hope.

Mate firstly you gotta just chill really. Secondly in these situations which happens many times for me i usually take a walk out or listen to music for a while. Studying for a day to not studying at all, Where there's a will way should be somewhere around :). Personal problems too can have a toll i recommend just trying to take care of one thing at a time taking all of it head on can be really stressful. Even asking mates or relatives to help does the trick. In the end don't loose hope mate. You know you got it in you ;)

Well in my opinion you got to let time pass, that way when your problem pass you will know clearly what to do withoput any presseaure desission taken in emotional moments generally are not the best in any case you should take a little time for yourself you are young and you got the whole world in front, every great women and men started right where you are now :)

no idont no that i am a loser or a hero but i am a men...