Is it taste of LOVE or a LIE....
By waflay
@waflay (2737)
Nairobi, Kenya
July 2, 2011 7:02am CST
Mylotters, I have a situation here.... Imagine you are a guy in a good relationship with your 'one and the only lady' on earth. Nothing is lacking in this relationship as everything is set for a wedding in two years time, reasons being you don't wanna marry or not ready.... On the other hand the lady is looking forward for her big day, no turning back. One day she comes to tell you she is pregnant and she wants the wedding to take place in a month's time. The wedding goes to "I do". On the wedding night, she tells you she is not pregnant, she just wanted to see your reaction..
What can you do...? My friend is in this kind of dilemma, your suggestions are much appreciated.
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4 responses
@umabharti (3972)
• India
2 Jul 11
hi, should take it in a positive way as its equal to fooling someone who really trust .I woul d just appreciate that girls daring that she tells a lie to get the marriage done before what is planned .But it s dishonesty and if there are reasons at the back for telling such a lie then we may think she was right with her decision.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
2 Jul 11
May be she want no more to wait.Or may be she feels that its the right time not to drag it too much.Who knows its her whom is to justify what she did .
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
2 Jul 11
I like your point here,... but the question still remains, can he trust her anymore!?,
ok.. lets say he has forgiven her by word of mouth...what can remove that memory from his mind that he forgets all about it and move on with love-life in his marriage?
@sandeepmohapatra060 (38)
• India
3 Jul 11
yup its a taste of love....
Remain with ur lover as she loves u very much....
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Jul 11
But she lied to him,..forced up preparation for marriage before scheduled time (two years). It leaves so many WHYs that cannot be answered.. even if that is the better option since no one knew exactly what happened for a wedding to be rushed in such a way.
@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
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2 Jul 11
I'd want to know exactly why she felt she needed to lie to me about something so important. If she was afraid I didn't want to marry her, she should have said so. Did she even consider how I'd feel? Did she think of the fact that I might be really disappointed and hurt to find out she's not pregnant?
Lying to me to get me to do something out of a feeling of obligation rather than the desire to do it is wrong.
If she didn't have a damned good explanation, I'd leave her. I wouldn't want to live with someone who could lie about something like that: I wouldn't be able to trust them.
@miadsoriano (884)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
Considering all the above, and if the woman is really not pregnant, then that is definitely grounds for an annulment here in Manila.
