Test of love
By Ram Bansal
@rambansal (574)
India
July 2, 2011 7:44am CST
A beloved said this thing to her lover, and I think it is the true test of true love -
"You are so present with me - always meeting me right where I long to be met. Never have I had such a feeling of serenity in a relationship. I am fearless, devoid of anxiety - never wondering if I may say a wrong thing and drive you away. Never fearful that expressing my tidal wave of love may overwhelm you and make you want to distance yourself from me, never feeling the need to strategize and maneuver to elicit a particular type of response from you, never feeling a need to censor myself so you will see me in the best light, never experiencing cold hhands or butterflies in my stomach - even the first time I called you, never wonder if you love me. With you Darling, expressing everything with you seems to be natural and imperative."
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@umabharti (3972)
• India
2 Jul 11
i read the whole passage however i am not able to understand it.Would you please explain it more better.How is it a test of love when the beloved is not having any problem , it says its a perfect love for some one
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@rambansal (574)
• India
3 Jul 11
The paragraph is an expression of feelings of the beloved which she has about the lover. With such feelings on both sides, a true love is evidenced, in my opinion. A lover understands this better, as you find in other comments on the discussion. All the best Uma, try to love someone, and you may have the same feelings.
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
You've utter the sweetest words for her, I think you're so inlove and I like that feeling. I'm inlove too so I can simply relate to how you felt. Just stay inlove as you are, it makes us feel younger. CHEERS! :)
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@rambansal (574)
• India
3 Jul 11
It is not the words I uttered, but conversely, the beloved uttered to her lover. Anyway, this technicality is ignorable. Keep yourself in love and having the same feelings. One advice - please utter/write these words to your lover, he would be too happy to learn. Love gets strengthened when explicitely expressed. All the best, keep on loving.
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@rambansal (574)
• India
3 Jul 11
You are right, my dear. It is only a way to express one's feelings about the love. There may be infinite number of ways of expressions. I liked this expression very much.
@rambansal (574)
• India
4 Jul 11
Romantic words indeed, the reason for their being here. All the best, my dear, for listening such words from someone someday.
