what percentage of people seek a virgin life partner?
@mindrevolution (50)
India
July 2, 2011 8:58am CST
This is general perception that people want a virgin life partner. but on internet i have come to know that there are people who an experienced partner,not virgin. this information was quite unique and shocking to me.I just wonder why they want experienced one. Is is not amazing to make love first time with inexperienced and being themselves also a first timer.In what direction the world is going on?
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@Galena (9110)
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2 Jul 11
it wasn't important to me one way or the other.
I don't even know what the situation was.
the past isn't important to me, but the relationship now and in the future.
it's such an unimportant part of how compatible you are as a couple. I don't understand why people prioritise that over whether you both enjoy each others company, love each other, care about each other and are committed to building a life together.
some people seem like they would rather marry a virgin they do not love than a non virgin that they do.
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@petersum (4522)
• United States
2 Jul 11
Even in India, it is quite hard to find a virgin! That society only continues this myth because the boys don't know what a virgin is anyway. Girls, squeeze your legs together and scream a lot, then they'll be convinced you were a virgin! Oh, by the way - just do that ONCE!
@mindrevolution (50)
• India
2 Jul 11
Yes i also support your view that people should not be in hurry to lose their virginity.One should be loyal to his/her partner and in that way the life is really a heavenly feel.people only know about the trend of losing virginity but hardly anyone think about it's after-effects in married life.
@GemmaR (8517)
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3 Jul 11
If I'm being honest with you, I've never even heard of anybody who won't get with a partner if they're not a virgin. I live in the UK, and I don't think that things like that are as important here as they are in other parts of the world. It wouldn't matter to me if my partner had been with other women before me, providing that he had treated them with respect like every woman deserves. The only thing that would bother me is if he had been with a lot of women and had bragged about that, because I don't like to associate myself with people who are in that mindset.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
3 Jul 11
For me I would prefer to be a virgin for a girl but for men it is okay if not virgin because the man would be loyal to you if you are virgin and have the emotion of love.
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
3 Jul 11
just what i already said:
"DON'T ACCEPT WHEN THE SEAL IS BROKEN"
but when you already noticed it in your home later that if the seal is already broken:
"CONSUME THAT PRODUCT BEFORE EXPIRATION DATE"
and when you already consumed that product:
"REFRIGERATE THAT PRODUCT AFTER OPENING"
@investor211 (474)
• Mexico
3 Jul 11
hi there, im male, i really dont know percet of people looking for a virgin partner, but i was one of them, honestly i was looking my girl to be virgin, but since it was so dificult to find one, i change my mind heheh im kind of strict about it, i think one of the reasons was that our relationship could be unique, wonderful, something that nothing can disturb our thinking, knowing that she is totaly mine, i could say that i was very super conservative person, but again things have change because almost no virgin were found,
virginity play big role in a relationship, is complicated to explain that can be the reason why there are so many couples breaks relationships, ofcourse is only my personal opinio.
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
I don't care about this stuff anymore. What's important is that our love for each other and how much we care. I think that's the most significant thing in a relationship. And also respect. Nowadays baby first before marriage, i hate the thought anyway but I can't do nothing about it for it's so evident. I'm not planing to adopt it but if I got no choice I will welcome it open arms. :)
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
2 Jul 11
it would depend on the person
some people want experienced partners because they think inexperience partners can't satisfy them or they don't feel like 'teaching' inexperienced people
some people enjoy being with first timer because they love being the first partner of someone else in bed
when I was a virgin I wanted an experienced partner because I thought it would be comedy of errors if two people don't know what they are doing
but then again each person is different.
after all the society I was raised in, is not open to se xual talks, even in educating the youngs.
so of course most people are virgins, both literally and not literally
@rattanchauhan (89)
• India
3 Jul 11
Don't know what percentage but i know a majority of people would want to have a virgin life partner..but i don't think they are seeking for a virgin partner..i mean no one really asks whether he/she is a virgin or not before falling in love...But everyone would be more happy to marry a virgin life partner...but when in love ,being virgin or not becomes unimportant...
Hmmm and about people want first timers or experienced....i think who want to explore the pain and pleasures of the act together want to have a first timer..n those who want to be dominated and want to learn from their partners during the act may like to have someone experienced as their life partner...
@llooll519 (108)
• Portugal
2 Jul 11
In my opinion, if she is virgin or not, it doesn't matter... I must like her for what she is, not if she had other relationships before ours...
