Sometimes You have to know more than what you SEE.

absolutely, i've known a couple who argue and its their way of getting along. its kind of funny because they are so odd when compared to other couples. you would think they don't like each other at all but they never broke up even once.

i agree with the title of your discussion as well as your statement as contained therein. Just a little observation, i don't know if you have also observed within your locality. Some battered wives won't leave their husbands for reasons only they knew. Some even say that arguments and quarrels are present in a healthy relationship. There are mysteries behind a relationship.

Agree! Hubby and I used to argue almost everyday. I loved him then. Now, I am tired of always arguing and I learned that chiding him in my most reasonable (sweetest too, if possible) voice gets him to understand. And I still love him now. There really is not way of telling what is behind closed doors -- or behind the masks, for that matter.

Whenever i fought with my partner or even just friends, after we patch things up, the relationship gets better. As long as the argument is a healthy one and no throwing of hateful words, it is really very helpful in all kinds of relationship.

hello chuyins, It is natural to have an argument even friends do this It happens because we have different views and characteristics But what important is whatever is it we must settle it as soon as we can Sometimes relationship becomes stronger because of argument as long as they both know how to lower they pride and knows how to listen to each other. happy mylotting

Yes, I very much agree with you. Sometimes arguement with the one you love is good because you want that person to know your opinion. Also argument is a form of communication that will make your relationship stronger after you settled an argument.

That's right, i understand that statement. I also believe that many people are silenced in a relationship where they have no voice, so why shout? I think that anger and fighting can sometimes indicate the passion between two people, that doesn't mean that they will ever have a happy life together. I guess loving someone isn't always enough. I think that working through a difficult period or situation in a relationship does make the bond stronger, but destroys trust.

Well, in the nine years that my husband and I have been together we've only fought with each other two times. The reason that I think that we don't fight is because we are completely honest with each other at all times. The two times that we have had fights with each other were both over really stupid misunderstandings. With that said, I don't think that people that do tend to fight more often than we do don't love each other because I think that love can share in a variety of very different ways.