Do you believe in first love never dies?
By lmlazo79
@lmlazo79 (39)
Philippines
July 4, 2011 3:16am CST
I have this friend who've been confiding with me and asking me if her ex lover is sincere to his feelings? They broke 16 years ago and finally they were able to kept in touch with each other. Although, my friend of mine is attached with her partner.
Theyve been keeping in touch without her bf knowing. She thinks shes falling for her ex who was the ex's first gf.
What should she do know? If you were in her shoes? should she stop or just remain friends with her ex of 16 yrs.
1 person likes this
4 responses
@wizteen (502)
• India
4 Jul 11
Breaking a good relationship because she thinks the she loves her ex not not a decision she should make in a hurry . But then again,If shes thinking that she loves her ex,then she might not be satisfied with her present relationship...she needs to get things clear that whether shes happy with her present relationship...if she is, then she better put her ex into friend zone.
@lmlazo79 (39)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
hmm.. she would often tell me that she's happy and contented with her current relationship. Maybe she's just wondering or curious how would it be like again to be with her ex of 16 years. Since she was too young then to have a relationship and since the man was older than her. Her parents didnt approve of their relationship.
@babyanna (1216)
• China
4 Jul 11
Hi,there!
Well,for me,I think first love does die.There are memories,of course.But after many,many years,people usually just move on.My first love and I have known each other for 14 years.We began our relationship 10 years ago.It lasted for one year.I didn't get over him for 6 years.He would appear in my dreams once in a while.We said we are just friends and nothing more.But it's just hard somehow.He said two years ago that he still thought I should be the one.But after these two years,everything changed.I was in another relationship and now I'm totally over him.He started seeing someone as well.We contact less often now.Maybe we are still friends,but we aren't that close any more.I think it's good for both of us.
For your friend,it is okay to remain friends with her first love.It is a good thing sometimes.And we have seen many people breaking up and becoming friends at last.But it's under one condition,that she is totally over him and loves her bf more than her ex.However,she does need to tell her bf about it.It would be disastrous if her bf finds out about her past and gets to know she holds it back deliberately.If she can't get over her first,then it would be wise of her to either go back to her first or keep a long distance away from him.
@dayangsumbi2010 (1724)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 11
It is relatively ...
depending on their feelings.
if courtship is so beautiful, and romantic memories that automatically hard to forget and vice versa if courtship mediocre, it is easier to be forgotten .. so not all that first love can not be forgotten ... It is relative and depends on the perpetrators.
