Why is it so that friends always wants to tease me?
By gptvaibhav91
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
India
July 4, 2011 11:35am CST
I've so many friends around me everyone has but the main problem is they always wants to tease as well as criticize me. I don't know why this happens. whenever I talk anything about technical related things they all shut there mouth & when they talk anything rubbish & if I reply them they all started to tease me. I found many times that they wants that I'll never get good marks in any exams. This thing hurt me alot.
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6 responses
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
These are the ways of friends. Some may be comical, critical, skeptical but all are for the benefits of enjoyment. Enjoy your time with them, be game and don't take things seriously, learn to play the field and find something funny in all of their teasing. You are young and no need to be too serious, enjoy your life together as friends!
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
• India
13 Jul 11
Ya I'm also enjoying them. When they tease me I put my hand on their painful strings too. Now i don't listen to anyone & do only what I like. If they are good to me I'll be good to them otherwise I have evil part to & can use it when their is a need to use it.
@uchelink (200)
• Nigeria
5 Jul 11
I think they're jealous of you bcos you're more reasonable and intelligent than they... So they're not the kind of friends you should mingle, they does want anything good from you,it does not mean you should start carrying face for them when you see them greet them and go your way.
Mingle with friends that like who are, understand you and also reasonable as you're.... :x have a nice day 8-)
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
• India
13 Jul 11
It is now very enjoyable to give slap their both end faces with me only by one hand movement at a time. When they can't be my friends then why do I only try to maje a good relationship with them.
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
4 Jul 11
Your friends feel you are better than they are because you are smart. By teasing and criticizing you they are trying to make themselves feel better about themselves. Laugh and joke at their comments. Show them the value of their friendship through your kindness. Make them feel a bit more important. Ask them a few questions you know they know the answer to. They are just intimidated. It has nothing to do with you even though they are being mean. Keep those grades up. We are all meant to grow to our potential. Never let anyone teach you differently.
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
• India
5 Jul 11
Before i start to laugh they start to laugh at me. I don't know why they are laughing but at the end they give me a rubbish reason which have not at connection with the talk. They give me reason which i had done a month ago. If I start laugh about this fool reason then they show anger on me. ha.. ha.. I know that they are insecure about their own knowledge but this a bit not a good thing that they are showing.
They have not at all feeling of friendship even to anyone. They are such a mean that I couldn't be. They need a reason to help a person which is in trouble. After you can think how much selfish they are.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
5 Jul 11
This is sad and I am sorry your fiends behave this way. Maybe they are envious of you. Perhaps they know it bothers you and they continually do it and feel it is funny. It is not funny and try to ignore them and continue to do well in your life and someday they will regret ever behaving this way, as you will be the bigger person in knowing that they were so silly at the time. Good luck with this and though I know it is not easy to ignore, continue to remember your priorities in life and try as hard as you can to remember that you are the good friend and sadly they are not.
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
• India
5 Jul 11
hi hardworkinggirl,
Perhaps they know that i can do far better thing that they can do put together. Many times they even told me but with tease tone of speaking. I have so many more friends but they are such a useless fellows. Even they can't have knowledge about any of the subjects. when the thing go so much of technical then they help me to call otherwise I am always stand at my own.
@kittie123 (75)
• India
5 Jul 11
hey hi
first come out this situation of yours and be chill !!:):):)
first and foremost you could go up to them and talk it out directly by letting them know how hurt you are when you are being subjected to criticism by such a huge group of guys whom you thought were your friends and if they fail to respond tell them that you need to know why you have been put through such situation and let them that you would love to be part of them if you had not been the only person subjected to such criticism .. and about you feeling that they are trying to reduce your mark you could talk it out to them and clear things between you or you could just ignore it .. mostly it will just your imagination of being isolated from their group and hence it would fade the moment they include you in their group . or it could be because they feel you aren't eligible for getting such good grades but still if you do manage to get it it is purely because you are up to some sort of cheating work to get such grades which is making them cross on you ..s o to clear this air of confusion you could tell them your moves and methodologies of achieving good grades this will not only make them happy and close to you but will also make them trust you and make them feel sorry for having doubted you happy day :):):)
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
• India
5 Jul 11
I mean that can't see me successful in anything. they show they are happy infront of me then at my back their foolish gossips starts.
I talk to them before about there doings but that is of no use. They do what they want to do without a think of a person feeling. They show only kindness when they need help of me.
@agesback (6)
• India
4 Jul 11
Best thing, try to ignore their comments. Certainly I don't mean go away from them.
I mean stay with them talk to them but if they tease you pretend as if you don't care and enjoy with them. You will always come across people who are jealous of you. Such people will be everywhere, nothing can be doen about that. This is the world and you have to face it. I am sure that when you get older you will actually enjoy it.
If they tease you, try to counter with a witty comment, but don't hurt anybody's feelings on purpose, take it sportively and enjoy those moments. Don't get isolated and don't lose your individuality.
As I said only thing is involve deeper with them in discussions and talks. Remember " Be a roman when in rome ". So enjoy these days kid, you won't get it back. Never feel downtrodden and never let them work on your emotions that is don't lose control and be composed and enjoy the life. There will be all sorts of people, don't run from anybody. Face them in the appropriate manner and you'll gain happiness and experience which others seldom get. ( In short-DON'T BE AN INTROVERT. Its good if you aren't. Change it if you are)
Have a good time, if you find it tough, spend less time with those bullies
@gptvaibhav91 (366)
• India
4 Jul 11
As I am good about me I am very short tempered personality when they do this type of thing of me I found myself very angry with them. You may be kind a right that I should wear those nature when I'm with them perhaps I try to create myself polite with them but when things are going out of my order I just start to misbehave with them.