It's been really an upsetting day..

Chill! Nothing beats being calm and cool when you're in a heated discussion. Don't let your emotions over run you. It will cloud out on your sensible thinking. Is it just you or just the weather turning hot and cold? I guess you should have hold your horses better dear LetranKnight! You better get yourself a nice, cold iced tea to suit you up!

Before I respond to doubtful topics I look around to see if any seasoned users have responded and even then I get notifications informing me the topic responded to has been deleted. Never mind. I don't think there is anyone here who can say one hundred percent whether a topic is a guidelines violation or not.

Letran if AuntD asks you to count to 10 before hitting 'submit' next time, will you promise her that you will do so?

Chill, Letranknights. Don't let them get into your nerves. Well, everybody reacts differently to some comments on discussions. But when some would really be so provoking you couldn't help but react violently also. However, that will not allowed by Admin. Should you like to see how i also reacted to a provocation, you can read my discussionS today , I WAS PROVOKED , UNAUTHORIZED TRIP and I ASK FOR AN APOLOGY. I am sure you can relate.

hello LK, I felt bad when I received the notification Oh well even how much we know the guidelines there are still some wrong moves we can do which is unexpected Don't feel bad about it charge it to experience I told you to calm down

Hello letran don't feel bad about yourself it's all fine, maybe you're just having tantrums and i totally understand when you hit me on the face. :) hahaha I feel that way too sometimes, just be nice to those people whom you reacted so much, I know you can do better than that. Keep up the the sense of humor you got! :)

Hi, LK. I am very surprised to see you're upset already this morning. Hmm... I guessed I missed a lot about you last night and whatever may that cause of trouble. Just like everyone who has pointed out that we all have bad days, we all have bad days. There are some days that you're the hydrant and some days that you're the dog. It will always be up to us how we will react. Most of the time, when I encounter a heated response on my discussion, even though I want to get back to that person, I just ignore it so that I could not ignite more of that snappy person. Walk away or ignore it. You should know yourself not to stoop to their level. We are "human beans" (lol - very cute term from Hatley)and we sometimes lose control of ourselves. But that's the entrance of how lessons are learned. And then we learn how to keep our cool.

I do not know what to say Let, since I did not had a chance to read that topic. However, there are times we did some things that we only realized we made a mistake there after. And it is normal to feel confused and upset after that event. You will passed this day Let. You will not forget that event,but you will just move on and get over it. I have been there many times and I just have the same feeling now. What i response to you is what i am telling to myself right now. I am just calming myself over the things I said and done. We have to let it pass.

I think I must of missed the whole discussion. No worries. You shouldn't feel bad just learn and move on. We all have days lke this. those are the days that you just go to bed, get a good rest and start over in the morning.

I am also having a bad day, but not in mylot, in real life and that is why I am not very active here today. When I am having a bad day, I sometimes find just getting offline and doing nothing helps, that is if the perp who upset me is not around... So, maybe next time you feel like you are getting upset, get off line and take a breather, that does help me..:)

patience will always be the key Letran, but then again, you are also entitled to "loose" it once in a while...

No harm done. I hope by this time you are not feeling bad anymore. We all have our moments and I have to admit I also have bad thoughts when I read the link. Let's all just go back to our sunny disposition and hope we will have more patience next time. Take care

dear LK, Don't worry my dear brother. We all have bad hair day and not everyday is fine sunny day. We understand about it. Keep cool and relax...take a deep breath How we wish we can freely express...as long as we don't curse eh (uhmm)

Letran, I guess it's just human reaction to react back in a not-do good manner when something of value to us is attacked and . I remembered that I was once in your situation and it took me days to realize my mistake and at the same time, figure out what to do for the next time. We can't please everybody here and mylot and mylot cannot please everyone of its members. Let's just concentrate on doing a good job and for the people who complain without justification, it's their loss

Hi there LK It seems you have this series of "negative vibes" or "mad" behavior lately. Well, except for that discussion about your chat with God. I have no idea who blow off your head again, but I think Yeah, you are right. You have to cool down a bit. Just shake your head and stretch your arms before hitting that "Submit" or "Post Response"...Count in 20 if you can't cool down in 10...Peace brother!

It is okay. We all have bad days. I try not to step on toes here also but sometimes it cannot be helped.

hi letran okay so you found out you are a human "" as one child put it to me and human "beans" do occasionally lost their temper. now you are aware of it so relax.we all have as that kid put it "lost our tempers caue we're human beans." I am sure he misheard the being part but he was right we all are human and humans sometimes do err.

Apparently, I missed all the action. You're one of the very proactive members here on mylot and I guess that this has it's extremes. I know that writing and responding involves measures of creativity and since you're a very passionate person when it comes to mylot, your love for responding has bitten you back. Having said that, I hope you don't feel too bad. As I've said, you're one of the proactive members here and that's obviously a great thing. I hope that this experience enriches you as a person. Keep mylotting! Keep writing!

Hi Knight, yes we all have our bad days cause we are all human, I think what sets some people apart is admit that we just had one, apologize if we felt we have wronged somebody because of it and later on learn from the mistake guess you meet the criteria so I think all will be just fine sooner or later. Oh about your discussion, good thing cause I wanted to react and go support your side but I just had the gut feeling not to, perhaps it's because I was having my bad day too, in fact I was only able to make 2 responses and can't seem to think, well it's 1:57 am and I just woke up cause I slept away my bad day, perhaps I will be responding now cause I'm feeling well already.

Well I guess it happens to us most of the time. There are things that you really cannot control no matter how hard you try. You can just relax and enjoy posting here in myLot and maybe find new friends that you can talk to. We can learn to be patient and that does just not happen over night. You may also try to remain calm during those situations.