What if yoru spouse or bf had a love child?

its fine.

Before or after the DNA test? lol, I'd probably welcome them in and be very curious about who they were. If they really were my husband's child I'd want to be part of their life too. I'd invite them to be part of our family and would encourage a relationship between that child and my husband as well as our children.

I would request a DNA test done, then decide if I was going to freak out! If it was his, I would make sure he would step up to the bat and take care of his child and make sure he did everything legally. If not, I would want her out of our lives.

oh lord my huby would have alot of explaining to do..

Just ask Joseph.

Well, I think If it happened before us I would just want him to step up and take care of the child. If it happened while we were together I would probley want him to get out. I mean if he was really in love with me he wouldn't be making kids with someone else.

A friend of mine had her husband's gf show up asking questions because she thought she may be pregnant...she was. Then when her son was only a few months old she brought him to my friend and asked her to raise him! She is raising that love child and she is working through things with her husband. Whenever life is hard I think of her...she is the most amazing woman I have ever met.

i thought it happens in some ones life...

of course its not a fault of the child so i will take care of him