Choose one..'Who loves you' or 'whom you love'??
@rattanchauhan (89)
India
July 5, 2011 3:42am CST
hey guys I have been in a very tricky situation..The moment is one in which i have to choose one person out of two..one is whom i love the most and have been giving my all to get her so far...and the other is the one who loves me the most..but i dont feel the same for her..what can i do to not to hurt myself or them? suggest something please...
2 responses
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
hmmm thats hard to choose ha.. well i guess i could suggest is learn to weigh both of them. try to look at both side the advantages and disadvantages of each girl. Then picture it if there really is a chance.
And also listen to your heart. Though sometimes we want what our mind tells us because we attract what we just see. Looks are deceiving sometimes. And don't forget to pray for some guidance and sign. At first may not be a love but as you go along with each other and learn something from each other you can feel that you miss her, or your day will never be complete not seeing her or being with her, until you realize this is love hehehehe...
@rattanchauhan (89)
• India
5 Jul 11
well the first girl whom i love a lot is very beautiful, smart and soon going to have an independent life..even she says she loves me a lot...so she may be able to take a decision for herself like marrying against parents will or something...i can make her happy always..coz she is the one really love..
but the other girl who loves me a lot is not so beautiful and not so intelligent but says she loves me more than anyone else...
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Well that answers already.
There is a winner and there is a loser. So don't prolong the other girl and hoping for you. Tell her the true feeling of yours and for sure she will understand, if she really love you. She will be happy whatever your decision even if it hurts. Well just hope and pray she will find her match someday.
@fenshu (56)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 11
I suggest you to follow your heart. which one that love you too. if you already decide you give the other one the gentlemen explanations
