Secret Lover... Can you keep it?
By rhodzptc
@rhodzptc (1317)
Philippines
July 5, 2011 8:22pm CST
This is a story of my friend were in both of them are secret lovers. My friend had a girlfriend but he had met a someone that changes everything in his little perfect world. Yes, it was an another girl so cute and kind but that girl had a boyfriend already since my friend cannot resist her killer smile every time this girl talk to him he makes his first move to invite her to watch movies. Then all of a sudden while their talking my friend admitted to her that she like her... The girl doesn't show any interest on him. As days past the girl started texting my friend, telling him stories and her problems my friend comforted him but he never knew that the girl started to have a feeling on him. My friend is a loyal boyfriend but in this case he became unfaithful he broke his own rules "never fall in love to another girl unless you are free". To make it short they became secret lover. The girl had a boyfriend for 7yrs and while with my friend her boyfriend broke up with her because she hasn't given her time for him because most of her she spend it with my friend. One day my friend asked me how long could he keep it? Could they be together till the end? Until this day I'm looking for the answers to that questions... I can't give him advice nor an answer because it was only him who could decide for that and find the answer for himself.
6 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
If both of them are on a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship only, it is much easier for them to reveal their own relationship. They must first know within themselves if they truly love each other or if they are just making their relationship as an escape goat for the misunderstandings they have with their respective relationships. Once they have figured that out among themselves, then they would know what to do next. Remember that no secret can be kept forever. It is not only being unfair to their respective partners, but they are also being unfair to one another by not giving one another the freedom to love wholly.
@koperty3 (1876)
•
25 Jul 11
It's hard to keep working all that. If he is happy with his girlfriend why he look to comfort others? I agree that you can do everything if you are free. If you are in relationship then you are committed to someone. This other girl is like ticking bomb, only second when something or someone will be destroyed when it blow up.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
6 Jul 11
I can tell you, that is something happen you might never expect in your life. You thought the girl you always with is the one for your life. All of sudden, someone appear in your life, and you can resist the feeling toward him/her. That is life. You fall for him/her unintentionally, at the same time, you can't stop yourself fall for it. Eventually, you might hurt another person who care you a lot too. That is love, and dilemma you never face before.
@dynzdolina (381)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
i am not good at keeping secrets on my own especially that it involves deceit. not all secrets can be kept for the longest time, better to come out in the open and make things clearer so that everyone will be free.
@mathgadiano (166)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
The saddest love stories I've ever heard. Just do it in a right way.
@skyismylimit (13)
• China
7 Jul 11
To be honest, it is not wise to keep such an relationship. Both your friend and the girl will hurt their partners. And the future for your friend maybe dark. it should be taken effective way to solve it before thing goes worse. If I was in the same shoe, I would not choose the girl.Man should be a man ,should take responsibilities. Fortunately, such dilemma thing did not happen to me. Thank GOD!
