How do we know whether he or she is the right person for us to get in love with?

Malaysia
July 6, 2011 10:30am CST
I am in my first love recently and my mum told me not to get too much into it. She told me that he may not be the right person to be your boyfriend and after we married, he also maynot be a right husband. I am thinking, if is like this, then how we know that he is the right man or right woman for us to love?
3 responses
Jelminrie
@Jelminrie (358)
• Philippines
15 Jul 11
He must passed through what your parents had set as qualifications next to qualifications of God.That's how you will see if he is meant for you or not, A always happy Love is nice on televisions but not in real life, there is a big difference on it.And you should match it with age if your still studying better not to think of that yet, make him as your inspiration. But if your in the mature age well then you know how life is and you can say if its right or wrong.
athoma
@athoma (39)
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7 Jul 11
Well, I have not been to any relationship but i think we should not think of marriage. We can tell if he or she is the right person but we can feel it. Time would tell if is he or she is the right person for you. Just fall in love and be happy give it your best.
ieniemienie
@ieniemienie (232)
• Netherlands
6 Jul 11
If he is your first love, you should not yet think about marriage, I think. First enjoy to be in love. Get to know eachother and do things together. Maybe if you get to a rough time and he still is there and supporting you. You know how meaningfull the relationship is. When you are not longer in love but you love him, that is a good time to realise he is a good man. In the beginning everything is fun, good and ok but after a while you really start to know eachother. Enjoy your love and eachother, you have enough time to realise if he is the one. I wish there were rules but usually there comes a time, you just realise he is the one.