do you find men hard to please?

Philippines
July 6, 2011 11:15am CST
Hello mylotters, If you treat a man nicely he will think you are in love with him If not he will think you are snob If you trying to be look good every time you are together he might think you are trying to seduce him If you scold him he will say you are like a Mom But if he scolds you it means he cares If you argue with him he will say you are stubborn If not he will ask if you are a mute If you tell your problem he might think you are troublesome If not you don’t trust him If you hurt him you are cruel If he hurts you, he will say you are sensitive If you break your promised he will say you can’t be trusted If he do he will say promises are meant to be broken If you say you LOVE HIM eventually he will leave you If you say you don’t he will say you are a denial Now tell me who is hard to please men or women? Just have fun reading Happy mylotting
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18 responses
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Oh yeah this is somehow true (not to all men i guess) They say women are hard to please and impossible to understand,unpredictable etc etc. But,men also act same thing. Unlike with women,we can speak with our minds openly and accused of nagging or being too much demanding. But men,oh men...how will you understand us (women) if we don't speak eh? I also wonder,who is much harder to understand... a women that speak or a man who keep in silent
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isloooboy
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Jul 11
Most of the time its true men's keep silent to avoid any bombardment :D
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bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hello jaiho, I don't generalize men some of them are like this Maybe it's both complicated to understand but sometimes it is easier to understand us happy mylotting
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
@ isloooboy, I can keep my man staring at me and fail for every exam/s
isloooboy
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Jul 11
I think you can, "Win a man's heart through his stomach" this is an old saying in our culture. So don't go so far to understand just make tasty and spicy dishes of his choices and live happily for whole life ;) On other hand, same applies for women as well and I think more than what you mentioned above because we men's have to tackle three women's at a time, Mother whom we love more and she is the one who select a girl for us. 2nd we care our Sister who search the whole family and friends houses to make one of their girl as her bhabi(our future wife). 3rd the girl who become our wife after efforts of 1st and 2nd's hard search who want us (men's) to live in separate house. So we men's are the victims of women's through out our life. What you say about that?
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
@ isloooboy, i am afraid i cannot find my prince in your place because i don't eat spicy foods but i know how to cook tasty foods(but not spicy)
hanuma34
@hanuma34 (819)
• India
6 Jul 11
Very witty presentation but very true too. At the same time it may be the same with the girl too. She has to please the man who not only has some 'appetite' but comes along all the paraphernalia you enlisted!!! Let us agree both the sexes have same kind of predicament - if we see it that way.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
@ islooboy, We also have father to take care of, a brother who can bug us and a husband/boyfriend who needs attention Men are victims? come on we are the one keep the house clean, who serves meals, who deliveries baby and many mores. For sure he will enjoy his meals coz I can eat and cook spicy foods hahaha! thanks for the response happy mylotting
shibham
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Jul 11
Hi bhaby.... you cant generalize this thought. It may be vise versa..... i mean the first person may be a women and second one is men. There are several persons where some are serious in a relationship and some are light.... Have a nice day.
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bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hi shiby, I don't generalize it No need to worries I can always change my mind but not my views thanks for the response happy mylotting
starsailover
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
11 Jul 11
Hi bhaby: I don't think so. In fact I have heard the same about girls. We are complicated because we are humans, we sometimes don't even know what we really want. It's not only about guys, this happends also with girls. If we want to make a relationship success we shouldn't complain, that's easy and instead we should find some solutions. Have a better communication, etc. ALVARO
starsailover
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
3 Mar 12
Hi bhaby catch: It's being a while since I answered this discussion. No, I say it in general, couples should not complain but instead finding their way to work for their relationship together. Thanks for my best response ALVARO
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
11 Jul 11
hello alvaro, I am not complaining really I agreed with you we are humans that's why we are complicated ones I don't generalized it Communication and being open to each other is just other way to make any relationship successful thanks for the response happy mylotting
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smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
28 Nov 12
Yes man are not say this word easily even the mistake is him. They feel their echo is hurts if say sorry to his wife or anyother person.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
hi surekha, Some men are egoistic one well some women are too... thanks for the response happy mylotting
Redva Kaurvaki
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 11
"If you argue with him he will say you are stubborn" that phrase is refer to my boyfriend characther, 100% confusing and tiring.Man is selfish ( not all ) and always asking big understanding from woman but they don't want understand back to woman.I complain about his rude mouth, then he ask me to love him just the way he is.But one day he complaint me about my mess habit, then he got super angry when I ask him to love me just the way I am.Oh Gosh!! Any tips to be patient facing the man like this??
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hello redvakaurvaki, Well fighting is just natural in any relationship no two people always agree to each other you can settle this issue just try to be more open to your feelings to him Love is patient remember though sometimes their attitude can piss you off. thanks for the response happy mylotting
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
I know and I understand what you feel but LOVE can take it away Maybe you need to smash your boyfriend's head so he can fully understand what you really feel just kidding
Redva Kaurvaki
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
8 Jul 11
Yah, fighthing is very natural bbetween two couple, but sometime I got so tired ::
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
7 Jul 11
I think your post is mainly intended for female mylotters, therefore, I won't say much. If you replace the word man with woman, the answer would be same, is not it?
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hello dpk, Hahaha!maybe the answer will be still the same Baby don't talk so much thanks for dropping by happy mylotting
APasserBy
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
7 Jul 11
yes, so I stop pleasing them and please my bosses instead at least I get something for my time and effort what you write above are so true with the ones I know good one
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hello Lmel, You know what I've experienced some When my boss is a man I don't please him I just don't go to office and he will call me asking where I am then he will tell me that they need me because they can't do my assign work now he pleases me thanks for the response happy mylotting
ebuscat
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
For me men that's why many today are not good for there wife the responsibility to gave money and to be loyal.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hello ebuscat, Maybe some of them and they always have a reason thanks for the response happy mylotting
Professor2010
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
8 Jul 11
Honey beta I think i have read some thing similar, some where else, these don't apply to all men and women, and not for all age groups. Have to ask the lady ghost, her view, in their world of illusion.. Thanks for sharing Blessings from Baba. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘@Bhuwan@’. .
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
hello Baba, The lady ghost is also an illusion Baba Some people is not easy to please thanks for the blessings
Bannybanzie
@Bannybanzie (1397)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
Hi bhaby! Well, I think for women, men are hard to understand and vice versa. Men and women have completely different ways of viewing things. It's the reason why men and women cannot always agree with things. But I think it's also what balances the world. If you always have the same outlook in life, that would be too plain. What do you think? For me, let's just try to accept that each person is different and ladies and gentlemen are very much different. But whatever happens, let's never forget that either man or woman, everyone has feelings. We all just have different ways of showing those feelings and different view of things. Let's respect one another and we're all going to get a good thing together.. That's my view.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hello BB, I agreed with you men and women has different point of view Besides if they are both too good it will be boring thanks for the response happy mylotting
naija4real
@naija4real (1291)
•
7 Jul 11
I find Women rather too hard to please. The women I have dated often complain of not getting a enough money from me. Some complain of my not spending time with them. I am not the type that is easily available for social life. This is because my job takes a lot of my time.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hello naija, I think those kind of women are not after you but after what you can give In any relationship attention is a must thanks for the response happy mylotting
igatiful_badass
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
Hi! It's true, it is a vise-versa. But me, i grew up with boys/men around me. I can get along with them easily. In some way i can easily know who and what he is just a simple conversation until turns a good conversation. But sadly no one wants to express their feeling to me coz i sometimes read thier minds thru thier actions :-( but fun being with boys.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
helloo igatiful, I grew up with my male cousins around me they spoiled me a lot And I can say I am one of the boys I witnessed their relationship which just come and go I always telling them you can fool your girlfriend but not me thanks for the response happy mylotting
nurseclare
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
Men are moody but girls are more, I think men aren't really hard to please unlike men. If they're hard to please all men are faithful now. But most men have third parties that means other girls can please a taken man. And I can please my boyfriend, so I think it's easy, so chicken!lol
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hello Nclare, Both have moods I must admit that we are more moody than them but sometimes we are easy to please specially if chocolates and flowers are present You are lucky then with your boyfriend best of luck thanks for the response happy mylotting
LetranKnight25
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
Hello Bhabycatch, Men are weak and can be unreasonable slob most of the time, most specially with loves one like the ones with the relationship. Yes, it is fun reading sometimes, but I see myself in this quote, some of it at least. I wouldn't do anything that would make them believe that quote is true therefore i shouldn't have that kind of relationship.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hi LK, Don't think that way it feels good if you have someone special in your life but if you think it's not your time to be in this kind of relationship then be it but I would like to remind you that you are not getting younger anymore . Women are hard to please also so it's just both the same happy mylotting
Toni
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
NIce way to put it and thanks for sharing this. I really don't generalize men and women. I am a woman and it's very difficult to please me. So i think i belong to the men category in this case. There are men that are very easy to please and there are those that are hard to please. There are a lot of fickle minded women and there can be a fickle minded man too.
Marcia
@emilyn1997 (171)
• United States
6 Jul 11
Men are definitely hard to please. My husband can be a real pain in the butt, and god for bid he get sick. When he is sick, and I offer be to do anything for him, or ask him if he needs anything he is a bear, but if I do not he says I do not care. If I want to be close he says I am suffocating but then when I go off and do my own thing he says I am ignoring him. He complains about this house all the time no matter how much I clean. He complained when I did not have a job but now I have one he complains that I spend to much time working. It seems like there is no satisfying him.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hello Emily, Sad to know this maybe you should talk about it and settle things Maybe there are matters that is bothering with him Sometimes they just need attention to tell what they really feel welcome to mylot thanks for the response happy mylotting
ravisivan
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
6 Jul 11
very interesting. This can be applied vice versa also. instead girl-boy u can rephrase it for boy-girl. good day. creative work.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
@ ravisivan, okies maybe you can rephrase it thanks for dropping by happy mylotting