if u knew that u would never find the right person, would u want to die?

Since I've found the right person, I suppose I should say "Oh, I'd want to dieeeee"... but it's not true. It wouldn't bother me that much. I've always been someone who believes it's better to have never loved at all than to have loved and lost. Yeah, love's great and all (and I'm seriously mushy and romantic, I can assure you) but it's also overrated. An odd point of view, I know.

Before I " fell" for my ex, I thought love wasn't for me. i had friends and a job I love but romantic love was for others and then this guy said he loved me? Me? Really? Anyway it was fleeting and I got my heart broken. But it was a good thing . Why? I took thr time to mend and in the meantime my heart remained open and as soon as I was well enough and willing, I met my guy , my One! So I went from not believing that love was for me to having so much love in my life. So to answer your question, unless it is a message from G-d or your Deity , Don't Believe It. There is someone for everyone! I'm living proof.Your One may not look how you pictured him/her but they do exist.

Hi! For me, hell no! I don't care if I don't find that so called right person. For me, life is not just about finding someone to love. I already got a lot of people to love, my family, friends and I'm still meeting new people who are good friends. For me, it's not that important to find someone to "share" your life with. Share yourself to everybody and make them happy and make yourself happy. For me, that's better.

would i want to die ? No, never, i mean why should I die ? even if i know that i cant find right one for me, yeah than also i dont want die i want to live this wonderful life, you asked about effects of love, this is the effect of love that i cant live with her even if i know she is not right one for me..... why ????? because i love her...

I think I would want to die. My husband is the love of my life and if I didn't find him then I wouldn't ever be truly happy so what's the point of living if your never going to be happy? I think you will eventually find the person your truly meant to be with. I think if your looking for them you will find them. Your young so just give it some time. =) You will find the one!

If I would not find the right person, I would not want to die. There is a life to be lived, there are objectives to be reached out there, even if I were single. There is really no marriage that is made in heaven. There are times when the couple is happy, but there are times too as if one is going through hell as far as emotional relationship, financial stability, etc. are concerned. What really counts is that both are determined to make a go of it, no matter what, day after day, hour after hour. And you must believe with your partner that the next day, the next week will be different. There are times too when you doubt sometimes whether you have chosen the wrong partner. That's normal, even if at the beginning of the relationship, you thought the person was the perfect match for you. When you are in this mood of doubt, try to count what you have done together, what has made you happy with him/her, what good (family, friends, relatives, material things, sense of well being, sense of fulfillment, love, respect and regard, etc.) has the person brought to your life. In other words, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS with him/her. Then you will realize, especially when you have lived together for a long time, that you will never ever exchange him/her for all the money and any other beauty or handsome boy in the world.

Remember that you cannot put your happiness in somebody else's hands. I think if I am to know that I will never find the right person, then perhaps I would better enjoy myself finding other things or people to love. Love doesn't come only by the men or partner we can have, but by other things as well. If a man can't love me, why not just adopt kids or have kids of my own. These kids I guess would love me more than any man/partner would. It's sad really that most people are lonely because they think that it's only the love of a partner that can make them feel whole. There is other forms of love, a more pure and honest one. As for wanting to die, I don't think so. Why should I die if I can't find the right person? does this mean that I'm just worth it when somebody loves me? I wouldn't be in this world if I would live life full of insecurity. You can be happy. It's up to you if you want to truly be happy. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!

When I was young and in a terrible state of depression all the time I did feel like I wanted to die because I didnt think I would ever meet anyone. Now I have my kids and honestly if I wind up alone I dont care. My kids mean more to me then the love from a man.

Hi sweet love forever:I think this would be a hard feeling but at least I have myself. I love myself and I have God. That's enough for me. I can smile even if I couldn't be able to find the love of my life. Love is important but life is full of beautiful things. Finding your match is not the only thing we can accomplish here. ALVARO

I think, it would be selfish of you to want to die just because you didn't find the right person. You have your family, who loves you so much, so your wanting to die will be an expression that they are not important to you. Love knows no age, so you don't know if later in life your right person will finally come.

If i couldn't find the the person that God has prepared for me its ok. Coz i know there are some people out there like friends and my son who would love me more and more. My world will not stop just because i have no partner. God is there too to love me also :-) So don't be sad for sure your family would love and care for you more and more each day.

Finding the "RIGHT ONE" is a quest life has given us. It is a spice of life that we must savor while we live. Keep in mind that all of us should have our better half and it is our mission to find him. Now, if you give up finding him definitely you wouldnt have him. And if you think of killing yourself because you have lost the hope of finding him, you can be the so-called biggest loser on Earth. Prank as it is that's what i could say about this.

what?? hell no! i love my life even now and probably forever will be single but i love my life... some people are meant to find their love one some people don't, just love what you have, if what you have is yourself then you just got to love yourself...

Life without love is more of an existence, it has no purpose or reason to go on more importantly no one to go home too. I could not live a lonely life. I need love otherwise I just stop, my life stays in some kind of stasis frozen in time. But I would never end my life because of it, there is always something to live for if your life has no love you must dedicate your time to finding it.

If I never found the right person I would not want to die. I would want to live, after all I wold have a life of my own. Having the right person is awesome, there is no other feeling like it but if you never had it, you wouldn't know about it. Enjoy yourself.

Well If I never find a right person for me than I wish someone find me as a right person. So my problem will be solved and I will do my best to make him happy no matter what it cost :D cheers

It would be sad but I would not want to die. There are other things worth living for besides love. I have been lucky and had more than one chance to love. There is a down fall to love. You always take that risk of getting your heart broken. With every relation ship I have had I always made sure I kept enough distance that if they left me I new I would still survive. My husband get aggravated with me because I am so independent. I tried to explain to him that it's not because I do not love him. It because nothing in life is guaranteed.He may not always be there and I may have to survive on my own. Some people get so involved and dependent on others that if something happens they are completely crushed. I have seen it many times with my friends. You can love but just be causes. Have a blessed day!

Wow... hai sweetloveforeve, it was not sensitive but rather pesimistic! God has made the creature in pairs, so i think everyone will get a soulmate. Just a matter of time. But when i experienced it so, then i will pray to God to immediatelly to connected me with my soulmate.

Ofcourse, I wouldn't want to die, my life is too precious to be wasted! I will surely spend my whole time working and makes lot of money. Why are you asking this kind of question? I bet you're taken and so in love right now.. :)