why others dont want to see you to be successful?

When it comes to business the primary thing is to outdo the competition that is how you profit and make money. It may seem harsh but that is the truth out there. The best thing that your friend can do is set up her own store and post fliers where people who patronize her products can go to. If she does not have money to rent a shop she could start at home...she could put a large tarpaulin for everyone to see that the products are sold there and also she could use markers or arrows to pint people where they could buy her products.

That's right. They did that so that their sales will also go up. Without your friend selling her products that are cheaper, their products could shine and be sold too. That's a strategy for business.

hmm its human nature... i guess its just what people are. sometimes even if we do not admit it ourselves, we get envious of others, we seem to just tell them we are happy for them, but deep inside there is still some form of jealousy in our hearts right... for others, for people who have gone ahead of us in life...

It's human nature. This is the sort of person to be avoided. it's best to associate with positive types because those who are negative will hold one back always. If you want to get ahead...think positive. Be happy.

It is not surprising, most people are selfish lot. They jealous of other success because they lack self-esteem to compete in these fast moving world. However, don't let these obstacle let you down but just continue strive.

It's because jealous or something.People always want themselves to be the best,maybe cooperation can help them,but they still choose something wrong.It's not good for anyone.

Well that is business. In business the word friend does not seem to take so much importance. Profit is what matters most and so they would do just about anything to restrict competitors from getting in the way. Indeed the love of money is the root of all evil. And worse even ...those who love money so much are the envious and jealous type. They will be jealous or envious with anyone whether be it a friend who overtakes.Crab mentality is a sad reality.

Just accept that reality my friend. Even your very own relatives would do the same thing. I happen to experience this myself and I don't know why if they feel insecure or they really do have crab mentality in them, it was really frustrating but I don't need to expect much, I just need to do what I have to do and go on with life because if I just stop, I will be the loser. So whether you are patronize or not, do not depend on it. You need to do your very best and prove to them that its not because of them that you will succeed in life.

The crab system works everywhere even now and that's sad. That is reality though. So there should be no reason to feel bad and one should just move on by trying to do things a little differently.

I think that the biggest reason the people do not want to see others succeed it because they are jealous. My sister always wanted to see me fell. We it comes to corporations everyone once to be the top dog. Have a Blessed Day!

This is very sad but true. Some people just do not like it when others succeeded while they failed especially if this happened in the same field of endeavor. This is one of those quirks of human nature where we find it difficult to face our own failures resent those who succeed. This is deeply rooted in how we view ourselves and is directly tied up to our own self esteem. People who have very low opinion of their own self worth will be greatly affected negatively by the success of others while those with a very healthy self esteem may even rejoice if those who made it are close friends or relatives of theirs. What it all really boils down to is in how you regard yourself. Do you see yourself in a positive light? If so, you will undoubtedly rejoice in the success of others. But if you see yourself as a lowly individual deprived of any chance to succeed in any endeavor, then you will feel subconsciously threatened by the success of others. So really, its your choice.

it is not surpring to happen. In mordern socity, the relationship between persons becomes worse and worse. Most people are selfish and jealous espeically women. They feel unhappy if others earn more money than them. Maybe this is a "disease". Lessons cannot cure them. What a crazy world!

Because they are jealous about your success. Maybe you could consider if they truly want to be your friends or not. Thanks

Well we do live in a very greedy world full of comparisons. Without comparisons we would have nothing to aspire to. When someone reaches a level that we have aspired to we may think " why wasn't that me". They will fill themselves with envy towards that person and act in irrational ways. It's very sad and very true but that's the way the world works.

the same question comes in my mind too. why does our fellow , our frnds cant accept our success, and this happens many times in our life. what I think the reason is that , they are our frnds because we have some similarities, some similar abilities and some similar disabilities, and when got know about our some success which they cant do, or where they cant reach , they may be got fear to loose us.

Well, aside from crab mentality it's what you call " INSECURITY". And people like them will do everything just pull down their fellow men. I don't know how it feels like, when you've done bad against someone due to insecurity. I just hope the sales of your friend will not get affected and they can look fora anonther business strategies. :)

thats life. no one perfect :)

They are insecured, they dont want you to excel.. I don't care to the people with this kind of attitude!