Are you sure everyone in your friend's lists are still ALIVE?
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
July 7, 2011 3:55am CST
Sorry folks...i don't know what's in my head since yesterday but I just can't stopped this "spooky" issue here.
To those who keep accepting friends requests in facebook and other sites,ok fine even here in mylot.
How many friends do you have in your lists then...100,200, or maybe some reaches 1,000.
Do you know them all?...
Are they still ALIVE or not?
How sure you are chatting/talking to the real person.
maybe the owner of that account is already dead and someone is using the account,but you never knew!
How sure you are it's not a hacker...?
Ok...just asking dear mylotters and have a good day.
don't mind,it's not November and not October either
just for the sake of discussion started by this dead person's account that popped up in my facebook account yesterday
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17 responses
@Bannybanzie (1397)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
Hi!
You're so up to this kind of discussion, huh? Back to the topic. Yes! I'm as sure that I'm alive that they are alive! Why? Hmmm.. Because they're still alive.
To check, I'll send them message one by one saying: "Hey buddy, are you still alive? My friend in mylot asked if we knew our friends are still alive, so I'm asking you, are you still alive? And if you're not, it'd be great if you send me a message too so I'm aware. Thank you and miss you. Mwuah!"
I'm sure it's fun. I can't wait! WAit! I'll do it now!
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@Bannybanzie (1397)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
Aw dear.. I can't wait... Joke!!!! But do notify me
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
sure I will...as you can see my photo...it's pale,ready to become a ghost
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
11 Jul 11
I have told you, i visit FB when there is request or some body writes on my wall, today i accepted my neice's request from Mumbai
I know many of my FB friends, we talk over phone and communicate via email
Thank you so much for sharing
Enjoy life to fullest.
Blessings from Dada
Professor ‘*^Bhuwan^*’. .
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
11 Jul 11
hello dada,
So,i guess you know almost everyone in your friend's lists esp in FB...
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
13 Jul 11
Luckily for me in facebook number is less than 30. all of them are alive.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
9 Sep 11
Hi, jaiho2009. A while back, I remember responding to a discussion of yours about someone that sent you an email that was supposedly deceased. That was very spooky and creepy, I must say! You know, I thought about this same thing too. I haven't seen or heard from many friends here at myLot. Some of them I may know, while others, I don't really remember. I just know that they are on my friends list, but just not as active though. This is something to really think hard about, because many of our friends, we haven't actually seen personally. So anything could have happened to them, if they are not doing fine where they are at now. All I can do is pray to God, that
The missing friends", of ours is not deceased, but is only alive and well.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
hello cream,
I have deleted few names in my list here in mylot.
I know I should've not done it,but I checked those who are not active for a year and deleted a few.
Yah,it's hard to guess whether they are fine and around with new names or what..
thanks for the response and have a good day
jaiho®
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
22 Jul 11
Hi Jaiho, lol. Yes almost all my friends are active on fb. I use to drop a hello to them in a month and i get back responses. You make real fear.LOL
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
hello best,
That's good,at least you know everyone in your friend's lists personally (hehehe)
i just wonder if those people who has 500-1000 people in their lists knows all of them,or know if one perished :P
have a great weekend ahead
@earningmember (914)
• Canada
8 Jul 11
Well, I know all my friends on facebook and all are alive! I only accept friends based on my value and if I know them and that first thumb of rule I'm using!
On rare occassion, I receiving unknown request including when friends suggest friends to be added!
Some time, I use the chat feature and I know my friends by now!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello earningmember,
That's good,at least you personally knew your friends.
thanks for the response and have a great weekend
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
13 Jul 11
We deal with created ids in mylot and also in emails. As long as that id responds we take it is from the same person. For example if my wife answers from this id--people will not know that I have not answered.
however ur question is interesting to note. good day.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Jul 11
hello ravi,
I just observed some people in facebook having hundreds and few have almost reached a thousand.
I wonder if they know those person personally...or not,and just add people or request.
So,how will they be able to know who still exists or not.
have a good day
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
8 Jul 11
most friends I have on there are gamers
but the small amount that I got close to, although I never meet in person,
they are still alive for sure,
actively updating their profiles with their photos going somewhere etc
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello Mel,
That's good,at least they are all active updating their profiles.
that way you are very sure they are all alive
thanks for your response and have a good day
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
8 Jul 11
I have nowhere of knowing whether all the people in my friend's list are still alive and kicking. Who cares anywhere since the cyberworld is illusive and most of the virtual friends online are good actors and actresses. It takes a little commonsense to figure out whether we are really communicating with a human being or a robot.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello zandi,
So,you don't know those people in your friend's list particularly in facebook?
I can say here in mylot,I don't know few of those who are in my lists personally.
But most of them,thu i haven't met in person,inter-acts with me regularly.
About your comments that cyber world is illusive...okay,that is illusive to those people who are not real.
Mind you,i found real people thru internet world.
I found true friends from social sites and met in person.
So,i don't consider internet,online friends as illusive.
Have a good day always
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello mayka,
I am referring actually with facebook here.
If you can see the interest..it is under "facebook"
thanks for your response and have a good day
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
8 Jul 11
LOL WHAT! I haven't thought about it but honestly don't know, but I think most of them are alive because I see them posting topics but there are a few that seem to be missing in action
As for facebook I have not accepted any phantom request there but I have noticed that a few of my facebook friends are not as active but I'm sure there alive.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello apples,
Well,here in mylot I also don't know what happen to few of my friends who are not active.
Just hope they will come one day and say "hello" uh uh .
I also do not accept phantom request in facebook.
have a great weekend ahead
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
7 Jul 11
Friend my facebook friend list is limited and maximum my family members are there so I know about everyone and chat with everyone in a week or month so I can so now everyone is live.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello dear,
That's good that your facebook is only limited for people you know personally.
have a great weekend ahead dear sis
@atprudente6 (673)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
You can never really know unless you personally know or personally saw the owner of the account.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello atprudente
You are right.
So,you know all the people in your lists?
have a great day
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
8 Jul 11
Well in facebook, I know all of them there in person. i only add people i know and am related to in facebook. So yes I know all of them and all of them are alive and breathing.
But in mylot, I don't really know them in person. I surely have made a bond with some of mylotters here but I don't know if all of the people in my friend lists are alive. I just add them without giving it a thought.
Now that you pointed it out, it's kinda scary.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello thatgirl,
As long as they still active here in mylot..it's great maybe we are having inter-action with ghost/s ?...hehehe really sounds scary.
I also don't know few of those people in my lists here in mylot.
I also add them because i feel to add them.
have a great weekend ahead
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello djbtol,
That's good you knew all your friends personally and you inter-act with them regularly.
have a great weekend ahead
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
hahaha! Funny question jaiho, but i don't know if all my friedsn are all alive..I'm not checking all of them. I just hope they're all alive.It's scary to think I got a ghost in my fb or mylot..lol
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
hello clare,
Oh my,who knows we have a ghost friend in our lists then...hehehe.
Isn't it exciting ?
have a great weekend ahead