Can we consider advices received here for real?

I asked for advices here in mylot and I got nice replies and it's realy helpful. And if i post responds here in mylot it's from my heart, my capacity and knowledge. And I always make sure I said the right words. :)

We have to give the benefit of doubt that people who ask are sincerely looking for advice. In a similar argument, we trust that people who give advice do it with the best of intent. However, there may be some who do either or both for the sake of dollars and cents, so especially for those seeking advice, it is best remembered that any advice you take, you have to own the responsibility of that decision. The rest of the lotter's words are either advice...or noise. For me, if I can value-add, I try to. If I cannot, either I keep quiet OR...who knows. Hope that clarifies?

I guess most mylotters that posted topic asking advice are serious with seeking advice. But in the end it is their decision whether to follow one advice or compress all advices and try setting plan A,plan B and so on. I give my advice according to what I believed is the best way and depending on the situation. I put myself in such situation to relate with the problem. That is why i only respond to topics that I can relate with. I don't respond to any topic that I know I cannot contribute anything, that will only mess up the whole situation and made myself stupid..

Without any doubt, we can consider and follow our friends suggestions. Because some of my mylot friends are very experiences in lives. They know each and everything, they are giving good suggestion. If it is acceptable, why should omit it. And we can give preference to their opinion also, because it is giving us confidence.

This question is one of those what I call a perspective question. The one the could really answer this accurately will be the one who is actually asking the advice. When you ask for advice, for sure you will be receiving many. Some of them are true, Some of them are tested, some of them are based on experience, other are based on ideas and other are just for fun. What is important is, you are the one to pick the best advice and you will be the one responsible doing the advice and in turn responsible for whatever consequences of the advice that you have pick. So you should be responsible for examining the advices that you get and pick the ones that you think will benefit you.

As for me, I try my best to reply quality and good advices for those in need here. However, since what some other topics in here are not that detailed or not that specific, some advices given could be too general. I do believe that advices are just guidelines and opinions from other people. The choice still is in the hands of the one needing it. If the topic starter believes in a certain advice, it should be because the topic starter realized that that was what he/she needed. As for so many others wanting advices, they should be responsible enough to be critical on the responses in here. But as far as I am reading here in myLot, I see good and sound advices scattered around in here.

MyLot is a community of wonderful people from countries around the world. The members of the community try to work together and help one another based on one's experiences. Advices given are based on experiences with all sincerety. The adivce given may not suit to some individuals, since conditions can be different.

hi visavis It is from my heart and my knowledge when I give advice and it is not just to make money but truly to help someone asking for help. I have found among my friends here that their advice has always been good and true advice. I think I would know if some advice was bad or thoughtless as I am old enough to have learned a few things from life and from my own education too.I have no malice towards anyone here so would never give bad advice. I think most of us are truly concerned for each other and are trying to help in any way they can. No I see none that seem to be given for the sake of discussion only but you do bring up some wise thoughts there.most advice here is really very real.[

Hello!Yes,and I can have the solution of the problem.More important,in here and people around the world can exchange;Here is like a home.I now almost every day here. Happy every day!

hi, i have many discussions here about love life when i was in the time of letting go and moving on,actually there are some advices here from to our fellow mylotter that really helped me a lot in terms of making decision,and i also gave advices to to those people who also have problem especially in love life because i already encountered it.

Hi! For me, it depends on the advice itself. We can easily tell if an advice would fit us or not, so it's up to us what to think. I think a lot of mylotters here are really concerned for others and are giving nice pieces of advice. It would always depend to the one asking for advice whether or not he/she will do that.

Till today I have not asked for advice out here in Mylot. I enjoy participating in discussions and yes I have even answered discussions that we asking for advice. Out here mylooters are just not in for participating in discussions. They share genuine information and also give real advice. Yes not all the time will the advice work out for that particular individual but with so many options, for sure some advice will work out and the individual will also feel better. Till today I have never had a problem with any mylooters in regards to the information they share and I strongly believe that they are genueine people here to particapate in the discussions and make an extra buck..

I'm new to Mylot, but from the discussions I've read, I honestly believe people are offering good suggestions and sharing true and real experiences. It's up to you whether you listen and take the suggestions or not. Sometimes things people may advise may make things worse for you. You have to weigh it all carefully and then make a decision that's best for you.

As for me, I steer clear from discussions that I know I have no firsthand knowledge of. I only give advice when I feel qualified to do so. I never share an opinion just for the sake of having something to say, or for the sake of stirring up some controversy. I value knowledge very much, but only knowledge that pertains to the reality of a situation, not knowledge that has no bearing to the situation whatsoever.