This is for women Do you trust men?

United States
July 7, 2011 2:18pm CST
Do you trust men? If not why? I have a hard time trusting men. I have had some bad experience with them. I was daddies little girl and thought all men where nice until I got married. I got married the first time when I was only 16. Everything was good in the beginning. It did not last. My husband started beating on me and having affairs. I put up with it for 4 years. He always convinced me that some how it was my fault. Then I woke up one day and decided I could not take it anymore. I felt that if I had to live this way I would rather be dead so I left. Filed for a divorce. Then I met my second husband. He was so sweet and loving but once again it did not last. He become abusive and cheating on me. He tried to convince me that it was my fault but I was not buying it this time. I left. When I met my third husband I was very leery. I did not trust him at all. It took him quite sometime to convince me to marry him. We have been married 15 years and he has always been faithful and never raised a hand to me. It took me almost 10 year to total trust him. There are still times about 3% of me doesn't. My 2 daughter have been in abusive relationships and I have seen my friends go through it. I know there are good men out there but you never know which ones to trust. Have a Blessed Day!
1 response
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 11
I had a hard time trusting men also because I found or picked all of the wrong ones. Partially that was my fault because I chose all of the "fixer uppers" as my parents would call them. I thought I could change the world and everyone in it. I found out real quick how wrong I was. Now I am with my husband and I do trust him, he has been one good man to me. =)