hey single are bored

@zhawee (873)
Philippines
July 7, 2011 9:06pm CST
i feel so bored and beside im so much lonely. i feel have luck in my life..maybe want my own family..its thet well completed my life..
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• Pune, India
8 Jul 11
Don't think like that, at some times, you may feel like that, but actually, you can define the singlehood as being in relationship with freedom! I feel the best when I look around and look at all my committed friends, they're so much feeling complicated about life. At least we're better than that I feel! Feel free stay single!
• United States
8 Jul 11
I like that attitude! Singlehood as being in a relationship with freedom! A great way to think!
• United States
8 Jul 11
You must be very young to feel so bored! Whether you take this advice or not is up to you! I am 70 years old and have been 'alone' most of my life. I was married once for seventeen and a half years, etc. I drove a truck cross country for the same length of time and have lived alone in an apartment several times during my lifetime. I now live and travel in my 31' 5th wheel travel trailer - just to give you a bit of background. I have learned a bit about being alone which I will pass on to you. First of all, you need to learn to love yourself and be happy with your own company! Thinking that a spouse or partner will make you 'complete' is a fallacy! You are ALREADY a complete person - true that a mate can compliment you, but untrue that one will COMPLETE you and keep you from being bored. Getting involved with another person is not the cure for being bored. Love yourself before you attempt a relationship. Be happy in your single status and ignore the 'standard' set by society that you have to have a mate to be complete. Good wishes and prayers coming your way.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
Hi zhawee! You know what? If you are bored and feeling lonely, you need to get out of your routine and enjoy life. I am single, but I don't feel bored and lonely. I wanted to have a family too, yet it is not the right time for that. Marriage and having a family is something not to complete your boredom and loneliness. It is a serious obligation that you need to be prepared for. Do not just marry because you are lonely. You have to feel the love in your heart and share it. Get out of the box. Do not stay in one corner. Reach out!
• United States
8 Jul 11
Hi there, Try and not determine when it is time to start a family simply because one is bored. Try and socialize a bit more with others so you keep busy. Starting a family means one has to be fully mentally and financially prepared. Call friends, go online, hang out offline with friends and try and meet other people offline, will keep you busy and rid of the boredom. How about hobbies that helps too.