how conquer the fear of rejection?

Being rejected is really hard to cope with especially if you have tried all your best just to impress or to be accepted.What's more if you anticipates it without doing something.One way or the other we have to move on and we are the only one who could help us to conquer this fear. About the girl you want to court, I guess you should really try to tell her how you cared for her.How will you know if you will be rejected if you have not tried it.At least you will be release from this burden of yours or maybe she is just waiting for your move.Good luck my friend.

Hi, leon. I think rejection is part of our journey in life. Don't worry if things doesn't work out with the first girl. There are still many girls out there. Just take time to get to know them first before committing into any relationship. I hope you will find your true love one day.

I think many perhaps most have this fear especially when young. But in time as I see it it grows less important. This may be because rejection is less an issue when at work for example, folks get to know each other gradually. On the other hand, there is the option of feeling the fear and trying to conquer it. But that's hard to do. And yet, it may also be that most folks meet and get close in situations where rejection is not so much of a possibility.

fear of being rejected had always crept up in my mind whenever i intend to court a girl, and mind you, there were rejection after rejection after rejection, lol! but then again, reality bites, and you have to accept everything that comes your way, and rest assured knowing yourself more, it is more of her loss than yours! cheer up and keep on going, never lose hope as there always someone special that is God-sent.

I suggest that you read the book "The road less travelled" by Dr. M Scotpeck.

Yes even I have had the same problem and its not only you and me that suffer from it is many others as well. As of today I have come over that problem and the fear of rejection does not bother me at all. When we are nervour, things just dont seem to go our way and we often faulter and get rejected because we could not impress the girl. We should never be let down by things like this and should learn fromour mistakes and that will help us improve. When you meeting a girl for the first time never feel that you will be rejected. If that comes in your mind then you are more concerned what will be the future outcome than concentrating on the present time. So see if this works and good luck..

I think that the best way to conquer it is to face it and get used to it. Once you experienced it, it would probably be a lot easier for you to actually handle it because you'll be in a situation where you need to cope with things. Of course, there could be downsides, but make sure to have back ups like good friends who can always cheer you when you are down, or hobbies that can relieve stress, or even team sports. It's natural to fear rejection, it's how you stand up after being rejected that makes you conquer it.

Fearing rejection is quite normal and you are not alone. I would advise that one should be relaxed and remain oneself and while in private certainly express your feelings. One should not concentrate on impressing but remaining true to themselves as this will be the person, that perhaps will be seeing for a while or the future. Though I understand it is hard sometimes because it can be hurtful to be rejected. I think for peace of mind though and for purposes of moving on one should at least attempt and express their feelings. Doing so with positivity and knowing that you did the best you could can certainly help not being afraid. I think when I was younger I was sort of afraid, and can't say now that I am older that I would not be nervous, but as I got a bit later in life realizes that it is the only way to express our feelings we sort of build up the courage.

probably the hardest thing to do is to let go and move on. forgetting might work,but letting go,that's something else. To win one's heart, all you got to do is show that she's special, be there for her, and show you really meant for the relationship to work, by giving up a lot for her. but sometimes, things just don't come our ways, the same goes to relationships. If we get any rejections, we start by doing the hardest thing, give time and try to let go, not putting that much hope as before. if you feel like she's not gonna advance from being just friends, slowly try to make her your best friend to share thoughts and ease the tense after the courting thing. i suppose things would get a bit easier for both of you that way. anyways, good luck for you ! :)

hi leon, Love is not always a two way street if this girl doesn't like you though it hurts be it no one wants to be rejected but there will be no assurance that if you love her she can love you back. Just give a try make her fall in love with you If not then move on they always says if you are not meant to be you are not. Best of luck happy mylotting

I also have this fear of rejection, actually I think everyone have a little bit. I can't help you much on this matter, because I really don't think I can deal with this. I'm a girl, but I never made the first move to start a relationship. It's pretty tough to conquer this fear, you need to become a secure person otherwise you are never going to get there.

There's nothing to fear. Rejections help us to improve. BE positive and confident in yourself.