Do you think it ok to have a SXmate?

That would not be a good idea, if i were to marry someone i would be faithful to her in all ways and there's nothing more than that me and my girlfriend alone. If i were to have a sx mate it would be like betraying myself and her too, lets think it like this if i were to find out my girlfriend has sxmate apart from me i would never forgive her, now think it like that, no girl or boy would be able to forgive if one person is cheating on other. the thought like this shouldn't even exist at all. well in my opinion that's all i can say, i don't know what others opinion maybe on this idea.

The best thing to do is to be monogamous.You sould practice being faithful to yuor spouse. In my belief if I can feel the urge of physical need I will just eat and sleep it off.lol

I don't agree with polygamy or polyamory. It's not really a good thing to have someone else on the side if you already have a partner. Trust gets broken and people get hurt. As for those who do it because they don't have a steady partner, it still gets pretty complicated. I've read about people who fall for their f-buddies (who don't love them in return, ironically) and it's not a pretty situation to be in. Still the individual's choice, but still not advisable.

friend but I think everyone needs some. And at least I think it must be done within a friend because the more inhibitions wish more would you want it. I think that should satisfy your needs. But the decision is yours. Good luck. Have a nice day!

Well I don't think it's the healthiest thing to do if you're in a relationship. I would much rather just stick to one person to engage in such relations with. But whatever floats your boat, as they say.