What caused him to commit suicide?

India
July 8, 2011 12:03pm CST
Yesterday a middle aged man in our locality has committed suicide by hanging himself from the ceiling fan of his bed room. A suicidal note has been recovered from his possession. The note is as follows; “I can neither forgive nor forget her and so I am going to take this drastic decision to get rid of this embarrassing situation arising in my life as I have no other option left open for me”. He was a bachelor and I have heard that he had developed a close and intimate relation with one of his colleagues who is already a divorcee. The police has already filed a case of unnatural death and started a thorough probe into the matter. I do not know who will be held responsible for this unfortunate death. But can you, in the mean time, throw light on cause of this unfortunate and mysterious death? Do you suspect any foul play behind the curtain? Do you also think it to be a case of suicide? If yes, how are you going to explain the mentality or psychology of that poor man?
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SimpleBB
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
Well there are really some people who are emotionally weak and doesn't know how to face the reality of life or even could not understand the significance of acceptance. For such instances, what people needs is people. Meaning...if there is someone whom he can share his grievances, happiness or whatever he has in life, there maybe someone to enlighten him about such situations or atleast could understand him and help him to cope up. Actually, there is no assurance in a relationship, but it is really difficult to understand such if we are not in the position of someone who's into that relationship. Probably, the man really more in a the right values and principle for not accepting what had happen to him. Or maybe he just spent and focus his life with the girl and disregard of everything around him. It is really what life has given to him, but we must have enough courage to face and conquer what life has given to us. Happy mylotting.
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
9 Jul 11
Based on reading your discussion, I don't think there is anyone to blame. Sounds like he was suffering mental instability over the break up and could not handle life after the fact. I would say he should have gotten help by then I don't think he realized he needed help. It is hard to explain emotional menatal instability because one really does not know what is going on in the persons mind and or does the person themselves. I wish him eternal peace, but really wished he would have reached out and sought some help. Leaving a note means he must have had loving and caring people in his life therefore, he could have tried to reach out to them. Completely speculating because no one really knows what was going on through his mind.
inertia4
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
8 Jul 11
Who knows, maybe he was in love with that woman he referred to and they broke up and he couldn't handle it. That happens to people all the time. Or maybe it was that with the added fact that maybe he had no family and he was all alone. I do not think it was murder, I think he just couldn't take the way his life was anymore. It's sad.