Love distressed

China
July 8, 2011 8:52pm CST
my friend is up set .she told me that she fell in love with a boy .it is painful the boy is younger and he is her student.she is a teacher and she is so dipressed that she can not work as usual .he knew that she should not,but she can not control yourself.what she do ?
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7 responses
@EthanWan (42)
• China
9 Jul 11
Well, in my opinion,love or being loved is not the others' matter but all depending on yourself.But please do think twice before you make any decision.After all,you must consider many other factors,such as the your future life,whether you two are suitable to live together for the long time,do you have common topic in the daily life and so on.At last,hope your friend can make the better decision.
• China
9 Jul 11
thanks for your advice .I will must tell her your idea.your advice is very suitble.I belive that she will make a good decision .
• China
9 Jul 11
You are welcome.As you said above,it is just an advice.How and what to do is up to herself.But through the discussion we can see that she has a true friend,it is you.We can also believe that she can solve this problem with your care and help.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
9 Jul 11
Age is not an obstacle for love, there is no age limit. If there is a small age gap like 2-4years they can absolutely love and marry without any doubt. That is not wrong at all.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 11
She shouldn't do this. Like one of the mylotter said, it will send her to jail if she do it.
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
First of all, the relationship shouldn't exist because it's not legal. If she really loves the kid, she should resign from her position and then that's the time they should be together.
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
Falling in love is a normal thing, just let it out.And please tell her to work hard and she must not get affected to it. I hope someday, she'll find the right man for her and if it's his student,why not? Love is unpredictable. :)
@meemii (28)
• United States
9 Jul 11
I agree with the comment about if the student is under 18, she can go to jail and be hated when others learn of her feelings. Feelings of love can be hard to control, but she's on very dangerous ground and needs to be distracted away from this student before it's tooo late.
@picjim (3002)
• India
9 Jul 11
Forget about such kind of love and concentrate on the teaching job.It is never advisable for a teacher to be romantically involved with a student.Such a person will receive blame of the society,peer community and students.Its best she finds someone her age and gets back to her senses.