falling in love online
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
9 responses
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
9 Jul 11
I am also experiencing this same thing with someone from another country. We are now in the process of preparing visas and such so that we can meet in person and look into each other's eyes and see if our souls connect. So I wish you all the best and will pray that this will be your soulmate. God bless
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
9 Jul 11
hey there...thanks. i wish you the same.let us know when you meet live
@bouncybug (614)
• South Africa
9 Jul 11
Hi swissheart! I know that there have been many success stories of online love, so I hope that your story is one of the successful ones and you find the person for you! But there are also a lot of risks involved in online dating. Just make sure that this person is not scamming you or taking advantage of your vulnerability - there are some sick people out there.. So just be careful and when you do meet him make sure there are other people around and someone knows where you are going. Rather be safe than sorry!
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
9 Jul 11
yes you're right. hope things work out well...thanks for the advices
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
11 Jul 11
Hi!
I'm not sure if I'm going through the same but I have an online friend whom I think is getting more and more special to me. I don't wanna think too much about it because if I started to do that, I will entertain all kinds of thoughts and I might start to fall for him like you think you are feeling now. And I don't want that because unlike you and your friend, me and my friend are from different countries. So it seems hopeless for me if I start entertaining any romantic feelings that I may feel about him. So as much as possible, I only think of him as my friend and nothing more.
But my advice to you, is meet him first personally because we can't really know a person unless we see that person eye to eye. And when you meet him, be careful because we can't really trust people nowadays. We see news every now and then of people getting hurt after meeting their online friends.
But it sure feels good to fall in love, right?
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
11 Jul 11
Online meeting can be very risky, as we don't really know who the other person is. I know you are from the same country as I am, and here this things can be even more dangerous, as we hear some "great news" regarding this topic lots of times on the TV channels. Anyways, I hope you will be lucky and meet the right person, who is the same who he claims to be online.
@sandeepmohapatra060 (38)
• India
10 Jul 11
HHHHHHHHHHiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii......................
U have a very strange topic for which i am confused what to say.I have heard about love online & love on phone.In fact i also have some friends who fell in love online,but their relationship did not last longer.
Anyways, I will not say that U r doing wrong, but i will advice u something.
Listen Dear, the boy is from ur country & u even don't know whether he loves u or not.So, U should control ur feelings till everything comes clear, or else it will hurt u.
Secondly, the boy might be having a gf or he may be flurting.
So in my opinion, I do respect ur feeling but when u meet him u try to study him that he deserves u or not.Then u take ur love at it's best.
Till then be patient or else u may hurt urself.
Bye.ALL THE BEST
@Quietgirl (95)
• Spain
19 Oct 11
Go ahead it's your choice if you think he is the right guy i have nothing to do with it good luck
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
9 Jul 11
Hi there, a word of advice, this discussion may be deleted because it is so short, add more lines to it next time that are of content. In any case, you may be meant for each other, who is to say, just don't rush into it too much before getting to know them a little better.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
hi swissheart,
there is nothing wrong falling in love to someone real or online but falling in love to someone we meet through online is a risky one some can be successful some are not
Just be more careful and be wise when it comes to this
There will be no assurance that it will have a happy ending.
happy mylotting
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
9 Jul 11
I have never been in a situation like yours but know a few people who have. Some of their's relationship turned out good while the other's wasn't worth it.
Anyway there is no harm done if you fall in love with someone but i sure do hope he gives you a reason to trust him.
Good luck with your relationship and I hope you get to meet him soon.