what should i do with my boyfriend
By sushi
@chayannejaye (136)
Philippines
July 9, 2011 10:59am CST
this is what happens..i was in my province when my cousin and my boyfriends where robbed and their phone was took..cause of that my boyfriends parent where afraid that someday or soon their son will be met an even greater accident..cause around their area there alot crime going on...then they took my boyfriend to his relatives in his mother side..
then he said to me that he will text me soon cause his uncle gonna give him a new phone..but until now his not texting me even once..i tried to contact him through his aunt, his friend but i cant reach him...thats when i learned that they will bring him home to their hometown..he didnt even tell me.. what do you think should i do...
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4 responses
@emarie (5442)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I feel in this case patience would be the best thing. I know it's hard. I think we all have been there. It's his family problems at this moment and you shouldn't jump to conclusions on if he did or didn't tell you something. It's possible he didn't even know and he's just getting pulled around by his family. Just keep contacting him, but not obsessively. Make sure there is a line of communication open so he CAN contact you and if he has the chance he will. If the love is there and he honestly wants to be with you, he WILL find a way. If not, you just need to live and learn. But until you get all the facts, just stay calm.
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• United States
10 Jul 11
I agree with emarie just have a little more patience in this. I am sure his family is giving all types of talks about who,what,when are where not to go. So try not to worry(know that I realize it is easier said than done)thank goodness the robbery wasn't any worse. He will eventually contact you back and explain exactly why he couldn't get back to you sooner.
@chayannejaye (136)
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
Thanks for the advice..This discussion was made by my cousin she used my account to seek advice..i will tell her about your comments.. Thank you so much for helping, it means a lot to her cause now shes really down.. Your advices will give her strength to keep on going.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
10 Jul 11
chayannejaye,
I believe you should stay collected and resourceful throughout the whole time. Your boyfriend already has his hands full and the last thing he needs will be a panic attack from your end.
Knowing that he is physically safe and free from bodily harm is enough to assure you that all will be better. You can always remain contactable and see if you have friends around his relative's area to provide additional assistance in the event of some last minute contingencies.
You can send a text message into his stolen mobile number stating your contact number and needed instructions when he is able to get a hold of a new SIM card for his number. Then, you may need to be prepared to provide financial assistance via Western Union which only require identification to retrieve needed funds at his end.
I feel there's really no use worrying, instead we should use that energy thinking ahead for the other party. In conclusion, I hope that he is alright and that he will return safely soon.
Take care and have a nice day.
@chayannejaye (136)
• Philippines
11 Jul 11
thanks maybe your right,maybe he just has his hand full now.ill do what you advice me to do. i just hope that he will contact me soon and all of this will be over.
Take care and have a nice day.
@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
10 Jul 11
I think the only thing you can do is give it time until he returns, then see if the feelings are the same between you, and I'm sure there's no reason why they shouldn't be the same. There could be many reasons why he was unable to text you whilst he's away....reasons which you probably won't discover until his return. Good luck!
