Do you feel offended when someone gives you gift card as a present?
By divineathena
@divineathena (1746)
United States
July 9, 2011 8:13pm CST
I never knew that people felt offended by gift cards until one of my friends told me about it. She gave me one on my birthday, but said she was little reluctant about it because one of her other friends told her that she would prefer a real gift over such a thing. What is your viewpoint on gift cards? Are you okay to give or receive it?
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23 responses
@Cricket127 (548)
• United States
10 Jul 11
Hi! Actually I don't have a problem with gift cards as its not always easy to know what people want. If its along with something else then I feel that people are really trying.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
11 Jul 11
Do you think it would be nice if the gift is accompanied by a gift card?
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
12 Jul 11
It sounds nice, but I know the answer that will come out of my mouth for the person which is something like, "Awww, you didn't have to. I was happy to just get one thing, but its okay. I'll keep both, thank you so much". Everyone likes gifts and cash isn't bad either.
@Cricket127 (548)
• United States
11 Jul 11
Yes as its better balanced rather than just the gift card by itself.
Do you feel the same way?
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
10 Jul 11
To be honest I have never received gift cards as a birthday gift. I don't know how I'd feel but I prefer money instead of some gifts I don't really want or some gift cards
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
12 Jul 11
Receiving money is always a good thing especially if it is directed to spending it at a good store.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
12 Jul 11
Yes that is why I always give money as a gift on someone's wedding coz i have no idea what to buy and it'd be loss if they don't really like it. SO with money they can always buy what they like or o whatevs :)
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I have heard the same as you and at first I thought it was a bit odd to hear, but I can see where some think that it is lack of putting forth effort in selecting a gift.
I am the opposite though, I would prefer a gift card over a gift perhaps that will sit as maybe I cannot wear it and or do not like it.
Yes I am okay with receiving and giving them and to date no one has shown being upset after receiving them. I do remember one time giving one to a girl where I use to work and she hugged and thanked me with joy. She stated she had nothing to eat at home and was worried on how to buy food for her and her son, so my Visa gift card was like a blessing to her that day, which was her birthday.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
10 Jul 11
Oh, thanks for letting me know why people don't like it. This is the first time I got the right answer behind why many don't like it. It all makes sense now. Your friend's story sounded cute. It was nice of you to give her the exact thing she needed.
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I love gift cards, that way I'm able to choose what I would like. It's not a problem for me if I get gift cards from family members I'm not really close with. But if it's a gift from my boyfriend I would like him to be able to pick something out that he knows I would like, rather than giving me a gift card.
Sometimes I'll feel bad giving them as a gift, but most of the times I get them for people who are hard to shop for or I'll get them from the people that actually want gift cards as a present.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I totally understand your point. A boyfriend giving gift is a test for him to show whether he knows our likes and dislikes. But I think wives really like receiving the gift cards from husbands. Just my guess. But did your boyfriend ever give you a gift card?
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I think wives would want their husbands to get them actual gifts as well, because it still shows that he knows what she likes. It's just nice to get a gift that someone put thought into to make sure you'd like it.
My boyfriend has given me gift cards before but he always gives them to me with another gift that he picks out. Then, we'll usually go shopping together and he'll go around the store and pick out clothes he thinks I'd like. He knows me so well that he can actually go to a store on his own and buy clothes for me, we just like going together because it's more fun.
I think it's okay for a boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband to give gift cards to their other is fine if it has another small gift to go with it. It's nice knowing that they put actual thought into the gift that they gave.
@tabudda87 (7)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I LOVE gift cards!! I would rather have a gift card so I can pick out what I want verses someone picking out something that I do not like. Even if there is not enough money on the gift card you can put your money with the gift card or hold on to the gift card until you get enough money for what you want.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
10 Jul 11
Yes, you are right, the gift card can let us buy something we prefer more. There are many advantages to it, but I am not sure why many don't see it that way. But somehow just as we are thinking, they are being winners with a gift card.
@moneywinner (1864)
• Brazil
10 Jul 11
I agree with you. I love to win those victoria's secret gift cards, usually the ones that I win don't worth much money, but it give a pretty good discount in the final price.
@gianni123 (25)
• United States
12 Jul 11
I am completely fine with a gift card as a present as long as it is one that i will surely use. What if the gift your friend gives you is not what you expected, then you have the need to tell your friend the truth about the present. With a gift card you are able to purchase what you want in the store, you are not just settled with something you dont even like.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
12 Jul 11
That is the same opinion we all have. If the gift is useless then it will be of no value. But again gift is a gift even if it is in the form of cash.
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I never really cared for gift cards, unless they actually come from a store that I shop at. When my step-mom was still alive, she would always get me gift cards from this really expensive clothing store. I never shopped there except once, and found the clothing much too 'old' for me, and the prices unaffordable even with the gift card. With the first gift card I found that there was nothing, and I do mean 'nothing' in the store that I could use my gift card on without chipping in another 20- 30 bucks. The gift card she gave me was always for $10, and you couldn't even get a pair of pantyhose or underwear there for that price lol. So, in the end, I'd just be polite and say thank you, and re-gift it back to her later in the year at her birthday. Outside of that, I never give gift cards. One of my other relatives made the comment once that "a gift card is what you give somebody when you don't want to deal with searching for a gift for somebody because you didn't know them well enough to get them a little something that they'd enjoy." That has stuck with my brain forever lol, and that's why I don't give gift cards and hand pick a little momento they'd like for their special day.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
11 Jul 11
I agree with you on the fact that a gift card is useless if it is from a store where nothing of value we can find for ourselves. I think in your case those people were indirectly showing that they have "expensive" taste when it comes to shopping at a specific stores. I actually saw this happen with my own eyes at my aunt's place. One of her friends had a new baby. My cousin got for him a gift card from some kind of gift collection store. I actually went with her there. Well, it had nothing for a baby. In fact, it was focused on newly weds. All I saw was a bunch of champagne flutes, clocks, cutlery sets, diaries, pens, wallets, show pieces and so on. So I suppose the baby's mom found nothing there for him.
I also am not in favor of gift cards coming from Starbucks or restaurants. They are all about just edible things and so their gift card will not be getting us anything to keep in our house forever.
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@melanie652 (2524)
• United States
10 Jul 11
No I don't feel offended. I know I can be hard to buy for. A gift card gives me the opportunity to get what I want or need at the time. I know some people feel like receiving a gift card means the other person didn't take the time to look for a gift. If I know what the other person wants I'll get that gift, but if I have no idea then I'll get them a gift card.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
11 Jul 11
I am beginning to think that some people are a bit lazy for which they hesitate to drive to the store to spend the money available in the gift card. Perhaps, that is why, they get irritated when someone gives it to them.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
nopes. i get excited because that means, i have another cash to spend. hehe. i mean, its okay of course to receive any gifts, at least with that, i would be able to buy something i want and i appreciate the gesture too because i get to pick which one i like.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
11 Jul 11
I suppose the idea of picking up our own gift is more exciting than getting something different from the friend. Gift card is definitely the best.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I don't mind getting a gift card as long as it is to somewhere I like. Like Red Lobster lol. I think I would feel a little offended if someone got me a gift card to a place I never go. Like one year my Aunt and Uncle got me a gift card to Blockbuster movies. The only problem being there wasn't one any where near me. I'd have to drive 45 minutes away to rent a movie. So that kind of upset me. I think sometimes too a gift requires a little more thought.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
10 Jul 11
Red Lobster sounds yummy. Even I wish to get a gift card to use in that restaurant. What did you do with the Blockbuster gift card? 45 minutes drive to the store seems really a little too much. They should have given you something from a cloth store.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Jul 11
divineathena great user name hi I love getting gift cards as I fell the
person who gave it to me was letting me have a choice in picking something
I really liked. I do not mind giving them either as the people I gave them to also liked getting them as they had their own choice then.I do
not feel cheated at all. It was thoughtful of the person to give me a
gift card,that was my feeling.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
11 Jul 11
Thanks
I wish more people thought this way. Just as one of the users has said, a gift is a gift even it is in the form of cash. But hope, this is not linked to a store we cannot shop at.
@Bannybanzie (1397)
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
Hi!
Honestly, I never thought there are people who don't like gift cards. But I think it depends on what kind of gift card that person received.
I have long wanted to receive gift cards specially for the big mall here in my country.. I think that'd be fun.
Anyways, maybe that person crazily wants something in particular that he/she hoped that's what he/she receives but it did not happy so he/she became sad. Or maybe she does not like where she can use those gift cards.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
10 Jul 11
Yes, it could be true. But some people think that when someone haunts down a mall to find a gift it is the ultimate expression of love. But gift cards can also come from the heart, right? I don't see anything wrong with it.
@keenan_savio (416)
• India
10 Jul 11
Certainly not. A gift is a gift and whether it is a card or something else, the person has given it out of love and happiness. Are we as human beings so selfish and only want something big as gifts from others. We should also understand that the other person has taken all the possible effort in choosing that card for us and we must accept it with gratitude. Its also a way of showing that we care and have got not something big but something that is meaningful. Never feel offended when someone offers you a gift card as I may hurt the person giving it to us and may also spoil relations..
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
11 Jul 11
I totally agree with you. But according to my friend, when she gave it to her classmate the girl kind of frowned. I think that is very rude. At least, she took time to get her something and we cannot ignore the fact that to get a gift card, person has to drive to the store first.
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
12 Jul 11
I'm not offended by it. I don't mind at all... it's the thought that counts. However, if I give one I like to make sure it's to somewhere they shop as well as include a lil something if possible to it.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I would love a gift card depending on the place that it's for. It is a lot better than getting a gift that I don't want or can't use.
@tink91879 (742)
• United States
10 Jul 11
I love gift cards. I look at it pretty much this way, I dont expect someone to buy me exactly what I want since it might be a bit expensive, but with gift cards I can buy it using some of my money to pay the rest or a couple ppl could have bought it with combining gift cards. I think its better to get something you really want and can use other than little things you have no use for. I still feel a gift card has some thought put into it. I always tell ppl gift cards are great for my kids to. They love going and choosing their own gift. My son loves legos and I wldnt expect anyone to buy him a big set he might want. I think gift cards are great and I give them a lot unless I find something someone wants and its not to bad a price. Some ppl are just rude and should appreciate what their given and find the posisitve in it.
@moneywinner (1864)
• Brazil
10 Jul 11
I prefer to win a gift card instead of a present that I don't like. I know that some people may prefer the opposite, because they say that at least the person thought before buying the present. But, for me, I prefer to win the gift card, because it's pretty rare to me to likes the presents that I won. Of course, I don't say that to the people!
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
10 Jul 11
Gifts are a two way street. We will never know what we are giving will make the other person happy. Some people actually prefer to get something that has a $100 price tag. And those are giving have to go through many stores and shelves to find the ultimate present. It is just best to go with gift cards. It is more convenient for both the parties.
@bouncybug (614)
• South Africa
10 Jul 11
I actually really love getting gift cards as a present - I think its great to be able to pick your own gift and rather that than have someone who doesn't really know you get you a gift that you don't want! So I am more than happy to both receive and give gift cards as presents.
@butterscotsh (1012)
• Philippines
17 Jul 11
I don't get offended when someone gives me a card instead of a real gift. Those people who get offended by expecting a real gift instead of a card are just materialistic. For me, receiving a card is actually sweet. Like they say, it's the thought that counts. Being given a card means a lot to me, it shows more emotions or feeling from the giver and you'll really know that it came from his or her heart. Other reasons why people give cards it;s because it's actually cheaper than real gifts, but in the positive way, cards are actually sweet gifts.