Would you accept WHITE LIES?

Hi, mysteria.. Personally, I believe that telling white lies is inevitable. Perhaps, you yourself have told white lies, haven't you? But it's really true that you'll feel betrayed after you learned that you've been just told a lie. Even I would feel such way and most likely, my trust for such person would definitely be shaken. Regarding your situation, I think you should talk to him and let him know that you don't want to live a lie and try to ask him if he could be as honest as he can even though the truth hurts. You must let him know that you're open for knowing the truth even if it hurts, he must be able to tell you that. But of course, no one can be totally honest. Just for reality check. I just hope you'll be able to talk it out with your friend. That's what I am doing with my boyfriend. I just ask him out and let him know to keep my trust in him because it's really difficult to get back the trust you just lose for someone and I think it's effective. He doesn't want to lose my trust in him, maybe that's the reason why. Take care. :)