Broken heart...
By camary
@camary (21)
Philippines
July 10, 2011 1:29am CST
How long do you overcome a broken heart? I always think there's something wrong with me because it always takes me a very long time to even forget an-ex, a minimum of 12 months and it really sucked... I am trying to forget somebody now,it's only been a month since we last talked but still I am hurting... I tried every thing I know not to think of him but at the end of the day I still cry... I always ask myself why when you finally found somebody who shares basically the same dream you end breaking up with them...
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
20 Jul 11
it depends on the person and how deep the relationship is
I mostly like being alone, I only have around 5 trusted friends
quantity doesn't interest me more than quality
when it comes to love, I can fall head over heels with someone new
but as soon as I notice the slightest inconsistency or change in him
my heart will take a step back
in my case, the term love is blind only applies at the beginning of relationship
maybe to some people this means I never live 
that's fine because by being observant I actually saved myself from more deceits
and I think that's living already
plus it makes it easier to let go, because my heart already steps back before long
we all change, but doesn't mean we have to accept the change in loved one
I think that's what happened in your case too
either one of you changed and it didn't work out as you thought it would
doesn't matter how long it takes, you will get over it
you have to, anyway, otherwise you will be stuck in the past,
doesn't sound fun, does it
that's fine because by being observant I actually saved myself from more deceits
and I think that's living already
plus it makes it easier to let go, because my heart already steps back before long
we all change, but doesn't mean we have to accept the change in loved one
I think that's what happened in your case too
either one of you changed and it didn't work out as you thought it would
doesn't matter how long it takes, you will get over it
you have to, anyway, otherwise you will be stuck in the past,
doesn't sound fun, does it
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
12 Jul 11
I guess a lot of us can relate to what you are feeling, all of us have experienced broken-heartedness at least once in our lifetime. Don't hurry in forgetting, take the time to heal, if you rush your recovery, chances are scars will remain and you will bring it into your next relationship. It took me 2 years to get over one of my ex, so you can't really say that yours is already too long, though it took me 6 months with another. Allow yourself to cry, to grieve, but only for a season, then when you feel that you have no more tears to shed, stand up and move on, that is the time that you are ready to love again. It is better to have loved and lost rather than not to have loved at all right?
