Do you consider this kind of love is fate or experience?

Yes, I have been in and out of love. Probably the love that you felt in school were just infatuation and not real love. Maybe you did have a liking for that boy but it is not real love until you get to know that person and are able to learn more about him. For you, I think it is just an experience that you have gone through in your life. And I too had the experience of 2 girls (tomboys) falling in love with me in school.

i am in love... i am in live with her for last 5 years.... the most impotant thing is understanding...i contacted with her through mig33.com its all about fate/ i am lucky that i got a girl friend like her. i love her too much...........

all experiences in life have lessons to be learned. Whatever yours are take the lessons and move forward.

Hi! I believe most of us here have been in love before, and everyone will have their own experience when talk about love. You may have the love kind of feeling towards someone, but if you never tell the person, and either one of you never tell the other person, nothing will happen and nothing will produce from there. If you are the only one who have feel toward the others, that is only consider a love from yourself. I think this kind of love is the not the healthy love. I think most of the love story happen in school mostly are consider as puppy love where you just have the feeling of liking someone but not the real love.

It is a fate and then turn into an experience. Do you think that it's a real love or you just like him/her? No matter it is just like or love feeling at the end it will become a fate and experience in your life dictionary.(^^)

it isnt love but it could be fate that yuh can be friends with those persons why do yuh think that it is love? love is wen yuh cant stop thinking about that person love is when yuh care about that person more than anything it when yuh know that person more than yewrself ;)

hi dear friend, i think love happens to everyone once in a lifetime. be it after marriage, be it before marriage , be it in your childhood , be it in your adulthood. but love happens. and as you have said once you were with a girl and once with a boy , there i feel that is your choice your liking, your satisfaction. it is not fate. people say and while in a flow i may also say that, may be it is a destiny, but it is your choice also , is it not ? i am married and i am having a daughter but i had both boy friend and girlfriend. i mean when i was not married i was in love with a boy but there was no marriage on our cards. not getting married was our mutual decision. and then i a was with a girl but girl was a very good friend so i will say that i was in a relationship with her. but now after getting married i think i was made to to love and stay with this man. i love him and our marriage was also love marriage. our style of marriage is also one of its kind. we met online and had a talk for less than two months and then i came all the way to meet him and we saw each other and that very day we decided to get married and we got married on the day after that. so , somewhere it is fate and somewhere it is your choice also, lol, so best of luck in your life.

well i think that is fate^^ i think that we all have a fate in our life. and in your fate you had to meet them and fall for them^^ its cute that you tell us that one time was for a girl and other time it was for a boy. this just means that you really are an honest person and are not afraid to say how you really are^^ i think that it is also a bit of experience bcs you learnt some things with those relations. we always learn something when in love^^

Love has many myth with its name.it has some variety also.motherly love,brotherly love,a boy and girl love.but as you said you are in love with two person.i think 1st time love should be called attractiøn.when we just see and fell in love.but 2nd love can be called mature love.i have been in love 2 times.so i undrstand it.

You can say it both.when you 1st time love thts a fate.but when you love that can also be by fate but you will use ur experience there.

You can say it both.when you 1st time love thts a fate.but when you love that can also be by fate but you will ure ur experience there.

Yes I have also been in love - two times as well! Interesting that you have been in love with both a boy and a girl! I am currently with the boy I that I think I am in love with, let's hope our relationship is a success!!

hello, yes i have ever been in love and currently in a relationship with my bf. when i was in school, i had a few crush with boys in my class but i just kept it to myself because i dont know how would he respond if i tell him about my feeling. funny thing is, we still remain friends up to this day, maybe fate just wanted us to be friends i guess :)