Have You Felt Unwelcomed?

No I haven't! But then again I have only been over friends houses. And I don't have in-laws.

Oh yeah. Dozens of times. More than I can count. I've gotten used to it. I am generally unwelcome wherever I go.

Well I don't know about unwelcomed but I have felt like I didn't fit in once. I went to someone's birthday party, well she was a friend of one of my classmates. I wasn't so close with the friend but still she invited me to the party. I thought oh what the hell and just joined them. But the whole night was a nightmare. There were people I had never seen before and besides my classmate, I knew no one. People were very friendly though and were trying to make me feel not awkward the whole night but since I don't blend in quick with new people, I just felt weird there. I missed my girlies a lot LOL next time i'm just going to some place with comfortable faces.

I guess for a few times but the most that I can't forget was when I was unwelcome in an office. The person asked me to leave the office. That was really humiliating.

Oh, yes. it. has. My family was invited over to have dinner with another family that we barely knew. At dinner, they made no effort at conversation. It was a silent supper - not exactly welcoming. Well, not that's not completely right. Towards the end of the meal, the hostess asked me why I hadn't finished my potatoes and if I thought her cooking was bad. Can anyone say awkward? After dinner they refused our offer to help clean up and we were left alone to sit in the living room until the host appeared. It turned out he worked with an Avon like company and had invited us over just so he could try and sell his products to us. We were not welcomed. We were almost used. I have nothing against salespeople trying to do their job, but the dinner scheme was underhandedly deceptive.

I know exactly what you are talking about. Every time I go to my boyfriends house i always feel like they do not want me around. They have never said or done anything to me, but for some reason i just feel like they dont want me there or like me. me and my boyfriend have been together for more than 10 years and we have 2 boys. i finally told him that i dont really feel comfortable there and that i do not want to go there unless i have to and that is the way i would like to keep it. at least until i dont feel like they dont like me anymore. i hope it is sometime soon.

Yes, once. I was at their door for a quick question. I needed a number before I rushed off to my son's school. But their maid opened the door and they were inside...didn't come out even after they were informed it was me at the door. At the time, I didn't know what to do...if it happened today, I would have walked away. Later, I got to know that they did it on purpose and even told other people in the building. I got to know about it too late and I was pretty naive at the time...or else I would have given back in kind.

Why, has this happened to you? It happens to me sometimes, but my husband thinks I'm crazy so I try to get out of there a.s.a.p. and then never return...I tell my husband that I just don't like the person and he lets it go, knowing if I say I don't like someone to not push me...

First of all i do not visit anyones house unless i am invited.Of course it does not include close friends and relatives.Nowadays i do not go anywhere because of my physical disability and since i am now permanently on a wheelchair.However whenever i visited somebody in the past i never was treated shabbily nor made to feel unwelcome.Instead people use to ask me to come more often which gave me a good feeling.

I once had a friend in college who offered us a place to say if ever we went to his hometown. A couple of years after we graduated, I called him up to take him up on his offer as I was passing through his hometown on a business trip. It turns out, he wasn't at their place, and the people that met us at the door didn't really make me feel welcome. The hundred dollars or so, that I spent on a hotel was well worth it!

Oh,I think,this experience I don't.But,with the age growth,I have not like to go to the home of others.Whether the other paty welcome or not welcome,I do not like to go to the home of others. Happy every day!

Yes... it feels very uncomfortable, embarassed... even so we often feel like afool. I experienced this situation several of time. And usually i left immediately to go... and never ask anything about the attitudes unwellcomed.