When will you say Stop?

Love is truly blind. I must admit I fell for a man very much like that. I married him, raised two children and we celebrated our 37th wedding anniversary in January. A skunk will sometimes change their colors. He has matured a lot over the years. There was a lot of rocky moments in our relationship but we got over it. He treats me with more respect now than ever. I'm glad I stuck with him. Let your friend make her own mistakes. She's going to need you to tell her problems to more than ever if she stays with this guy.

AT this moment in time, your friend is deaf and blind. She's blinded by her overwhelming emotions. There's no saying when exactly she should stop and when she'll give up in that relationship. I have seen people who were even abused and yet still stay in a relationship. I call it stupidity but I never call it to their face. In silence, i really do think it's stupidity. I think i'm just glad that i'm not in that kind of relationship or i would also be calling myself stupid.

Meh. All adolescents go through this phase. :) Chill and let her be. You'll have the right to say "I told you so," soon. :p Just be nice and bite your tongue when the opportunity presents itself. :p Just watch out for danger signs, like he's going to take advantage of her obsession, or if they form a relationship and he gets abusive. When your friend gets secretive or starts to act strange, call the attention of her parents or your guidance counselor.

Your friend is experiencing the first stages of a domestic violence victim (Denial). All the studies show that the abuse will escalate. Check this link or any other on domestic violence. Then try to tactfully show your friend that she is in grave danger. http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm

I'll say STOP if everything is really ruined just what the boyfriend of your gal friend is doing1 I hate that. I hope she'll open her eyes very soon. Because most of the girls will just close there eyes forever!

if she has not had a boyfriend for a long time them she does not really know what a real relationship is. It might take alot for her to see that he is no good. try to talk to her and tell her how she is supposed to be treated.

So,this guy is your friend's first boyfriend is it? Is that's the case,then your friend love this guy that much and she was blinded by that love. All you have to do at this moment is support your friend,and talk to her. I am sure she won't listen to you since she only feels the love and happiness that she is enjoying. Just pray that your friend will realize and see the real person she loves much.

First love is fascinating, that's what your friend feel.Let her for a while enjoy the moment and let's hope it's just the matter of time to make her realize that her boyfriend can't treat her that bad!Tell her slowly that falling in love doesn't mean he can treat you like he want.If she deny your advice, you can see what next situation.If he's boyfriend become so over, you can help her to calm the situation and once again tell her he's not the right one.

As most people before me said, she is blinded by her emotions right now. First love is usually the strongest and very hard to break off but if this guy is as bad as you say. sooner or later she will see him for what he is and just give up on him. I just hope that ptower76 is wrong, because if he's right then she will need help. And if you see that at any moment she's not happy that she's with him or maybe if you're really good friends and she tell you that, you'll have to help her get out of the situation. Hope she will see him for what he is and do the right thing and that everything will be OK for her in the end.