Why life is boing to the frustrated?

it's because they choose to see it as dull and boring... for the past months mine has been way to stressed out and its like i dont have a life. then yesterday i decided to meet old friends and just chit-chatted a few hours away over coffee and it all seemed too different from how i was months back. now i want to socialize more and get myself back on track because NOW i choose to see life in a different perspective. it was my fault after all why i ended up feeling miserable so i might as well do something to turn things around.

Don't take life too seriously. It would really become hell if we are always thinking about all the negative side of life. There are always two choices in life, to see the positive or the negative side. I also experience that and it is just normal but do not live with it just take time to learn something from that state to know how it can help us and be on the right track again.

hi man2sting oh my word you cried out for help as you are in what my hubby used to call a black seven. He meant when one is so depressed the whole world seems dull and and wrong and full of hell. then is when you need to get up walk outside look at that sun, feel the warmth, look at the fluffy white clouds that look like marshmallows against an azure sky, see the children across the street playing tag. now feel all this its beautiful, its free, you can soak in the sun smell the flowers , talk to your neighbor and laugh oh my dear man2sting laugh.positive thinking pulls you out of that black seven and makes you see the world the way it really is.the only pay I want from you is to tell me you smiled or laughed. for ex heres a scene from years back my hubby andI went to the mall in Phoenix to do some shopping and since my hubby got tired waiting while I shopped for clothes we each went to our own shops and agreed to meet downstairs at noon at our favorite cafe. okay I finished about eleven thirty so got on the down escalator to meet him only to look across at the up elevator to see my hubby going up to meet me. so I got on the up escalator to go up to where he was only to see part way up that he was half way down on the down elevator. So we both laughed and he called okay I am staying down here . I will wait for you so take the down elevator. we laughed at our silliness for several minutes before we sat down to lunch my hubby was a man full of sunshine and positivity. If you are not yet laughing picture this, a man probably in his fifties has a problem walking and is a resident here where I am. Well he has had a stroke or some sort of mental problems. well he gets almost to his table and his pants start to slip and the lady at the next table grabs his belt and manages from her wheelchair to pull them up. He turned around and grins and says" hope I didn't embare a.s.s. you too much."' She blushed and laughed.

life would be boring if we do not fill life with something useful. Life would be boring, if we can never be grateful. By living with gratitude, we will be able to live this life with great pleasure.

I understood you, and I can tell you honestly, I am looking at my life right now, wrong and hell. Maybe I am not that kind of person go out and having fun, and live the moment. Maybe I am a boring person, and I fail to see the initiatives to grab a perfect moment of my life. I regretted on some many things within my life too. I am still single while I am watching all my friends married and have babies. Me, no business, no career, working in a slavery job with low pay and low self - esteem. I am actually living hell myself.