Have you hated someone...?

Hating someone really make us a bad person but we can never just hate a person without any reason sometimes they are the one making themselves hate for us like their behavior,attitude and the way they treated us that will lead us to hate them.But usually I just don't mind those kind of people because they will just give us our bad day.

Instead of hating, I'll say I try to put people in "not like" category. I mean, hating is usually when you go after someone and try to do something bad to them. I never do that. If there is someone whom I dislike, I just don't get bothered by what so ever they may be up to. Usually it ends in separation of paths in life as you have mentioned.

Hi cath. Yeah it has happened to me too. Until now I still hate the person even though we already had a closure. I guess I just can't accept the fact that he destroyed my life, my career, and most of all, my self-esteem. There have been a lot of people in my life that has done me wrong but this person did the WORST. Anyway, there's also this another person who, for reasons I don't know, hates me! She's been like that since we were in grade school. Imagine that! And I can't think of any possible reason on why she hates me so much even though I've been trying to be nice to her and even though she has done so many horrible things to me in grade school and in high school, I've been nice to her but she still wouldn't want to be friends with me whatsoever. I don't know. Maybe she's jealous of me. Hehehe! I did stop forcing myself on her friendship because for sure she's not worth my time. Anyhoo, we had lost contact after high school (thank God!) and although I see her profile on Facebook (since we have so many common friends), I never added her in my friend's list, neither did she added me in hers. Well, I guess it's for the best.

i don't knoe if i hate him or not. we love before, never quarrel with each other, love each other, but at last we break up. i never want to talk with him, even he is online, and sometimes i have a little hated on him. is that i hate him, i don't know.

Yes. I have hated a person just recently to the extent that I don't want to see her, even her shadow. I stopped communicating to her and she still texts me. The reason why I hated her this much is that I can't take her attitude anymore. She doesn't have a word of honor and I hate that kind of attitude. We've been friends for years and I've already confronted her a lot of times that she has to learn how to stand her words especially whenever she promises but still, she can't do it. So now, I'm planning to give her a lesson. I didn't communicate to her anymore.

I am now hating a girl in my class.I just don't like her as I first seen her.She's a bit of evil I think.But others do not think this way.That's also a reason that I hate her.

hi friend, i have hated some one long ago because she cheated me in my activities. but according to me hate is nothing that lasts long. now i remember that incident with a smile in my face. the life is so short and we dont know when will our life end, so dont waste time by hating anyone. be happy always. if someone cheats you then better be cautious to him next time and dont trust him, it is better than hating.

That happen to me too. That will be my aunt, and she and my family haven't talk for over 8 years. She knew where I live, and we knew where she live. She simply hate us, and we don't need to communicate with her. I wish that we don't have to talk to her ever again.

by hating someone, you only make your world limited for a number of reasons.... you'll feel uneasy.... it's like feeling there is something missing.... and in time comes that you need the service of that someone you hated before.... it is better not to hate someone, or too late...

Yes, I often heard of anything like this. But I've ever heard quotes from the wise: "Hatred will only further add the wound in our hearts" But be casual and still enjoy this life will make us become more happy in the future. have a nice day cathzuya

Cathzuya.. I believe that when you create feelings of hate for someone it generally reflects the care and love you have- that theyve hurt you, betrayed you or whatever.. About the pride..well, I understand, but this stubbornness for facing the real issue or even just saying 'im sorry'-is what tears some of the most loyal relationships apart..and can have real negative affects upon people, such as children being involved. Its sad to hear you never want to talk to your friend again..I feel abit like this with a girlfriend of mine, but I cant really see it being that way.. the friendship will never be the same, but just to know she is okay and well- its peace of mind.

Well everyone at some point of time in his life time has hated someone and also deeply loved someone .But if we take it as objectively then hating someone is not a virtue as it makes our personality ugly .Therer is lot to rejoice in the world then why to bother to hate someone .We should try to be as much loving and compassionate as possible because only through our love and compassion only we are going to reserve our place in heart of someone and in eyes of GOD.