His jealousy is too much right now..

hye jazel, jealous mean LOVE jazel. Everything you do, you go he care about you. So why dont you explain to your husband nicely and promise to do what he say. I think that better.

Hi jazel.. You should find out the root of his jealousy, the proper person with whom he suspects you... then bring him to your hubby and expose everything face to face. Have a nice day.

Oh I've been in your spot and been accused of doing things that I had never dreamed of doing and would never do. When you are doing nothing at all wrong and nothing to bring it on then it is so so frustrating. It goes beyond that. I actually found it to be insulting because he should have known me better and known that i'd never do anything. Also, arguing about something that isn't even an issue just creates hard feelings and takes away from time that could be better spent just enjoying each other's company.

I know how you feel. My boyfriend accused me of cheating and went so far as to move out of our house for awhile because of it. He has since moved back in but I know I'll never marry him...if he accuses me of cheating again, we can go our seperate ways, without the paperwork that being married would bring.

I think he needs to have more trust in you. If you have done nothing wrong than he is the one with the problem, not you! Your very pretty and sometimes a man's insecurities because of that gets in the way. He needs to trust you more bottom line. When my husband has these moments I give him everything to look at to show him I have done nothing wrong. My email address, my purse, my phone, etc. If it gets him off my back whatever I will do anything!

I think you need to have a heart to heart talk to catch up things . I think this jealousy came from being taken for granted I guess. Because you mention that you work work work and it seems like you don't have time for him already so he suspecting you of doing something else. The best you should is to have a break or go on a date and make Him feel that you still love Him and also make him feel secured in the relationship.

Wow! Yet again? I hope this ends well. Good luck!

Perhaps he's just seeking attention. You have mentioned that all you have done this past few days is work, work, work, and a little bit of mylot. I guess the guy is just screaming "take care of me!". I am like that, sad to say, there are times when I just want to be taken cared of. When that usually happens, my partner and I bicker and I always think that perhaps the main reason why it's difficult for him to think that I just need his care is perhaps because he is taking care of someone else! Crazy huh? So, next time. Do not defend yourself when he's accusing you of cheating. Instead, kiss him and tell him i love you too. After all, the best way to put down fire is not with fire but with cold water. Have a great MyLot experience today!

jazel_juan, I really do not fancy your position here and I cannot help feeling some paranoia coming from your hubby's end. I mean does everything really have to fall into his place, fancy or pattern (literally) in order to assure him? Then, you can assure him that he can be asking way beyond you and that he probably will need to get one of those self programmed and customized "robot" for a wife where everything will fall within his whims and fancy. I feel there's no need for you to rack your brains or give this meeting a second thought because it is a fact that you are not having an affair and there's really no explanation needed. Instead, I would suggest that you spend sometime by yourself gathering non sugar-coated facts of what is it that is with him that is really bothering you - make a list to bring it up during the meeting and talk. Since, he cannot dictate any terms that will make this relationship move forward, I would suggest that you will have to do it all by yourself and lay it out for him. There's really no point to walk 2 steps forward and later retreat 3 steps backwards, the both of you will not be ending up anywhere as far as trust and mutual understanding is concerned. Take care and have a nice day.

ooohh that is so sad. to think of all this emotional pain. he doesnt realise this is what hurts a relationship. i really wish men could understand that. ive went through it a lot. hope he gets the right thoughts before its to late. hugs, bon

Jealousy can real ruin relationships. I hate it most especially when there is no truth to it. The person could be insane. I mean, he must have very low self-esteem to think that.

The cellphone could really be a wrecker of lives . Jealousy sometimes stems from the cellphone. Just try to understand your husband if he feels that way. I do feel that way too, when it seems my husband's cellphone is always tucked in his bedside drawer. So, try having your cellphone just lying around.

Oh well, men are sometimes like that, so paranoid. You just have to talk to him, reassure him that his the man you love and will never cheat on him. I think that's the best thing to do. He loves you so much that he easily get jealous, he's afraid of losing you. Just take it easy.. :)

Oh my gosh. It's terrible to be accused of something you didn't do! No wonder you're upset. Has your husband ever been like that before? Maybe he's projecting. Maybe he feels guilty because he himself is feeling restless lately or something. It just sounds very strange.

Personally I would be a little worried, especially if he is feeling a little too possesive of you right now. Many times they are feeling a little bit of lack of self control and worth or they are the ones cheating or interested in someone else, and if they keep you riled up you will never be able to suspect anything. I would personally try to find ways to make sure and pay attention to him when you can while still doing the things you like to do, and see if this improves.

hi jazel__juan oh my thats got to be really upsetting.My husband during the first year of our marriage occasionally got jealous when I talked about a particular patient, male of course, that I was caring for in my work as a nurse's aide. but it never was bad enough for him to get really angry with me, I always explained that Mr. Jones was 81 years old and I sure was not even flirting with the man, he just liked me and was interesting to talk to. Why on earth does your husband feel he has to check your phone, thats insulting,. I think the two of you should go to a marriage counselor and work this out as he's being unfair to you.thats my thoughts any way.

hello jazel, Sorry to hear this again. I never experienced such incident with my partner or else i could give him a straight jab on his face. My partner knows me and that is the reason why he never said or even suspects me of anything. So..if ever i were in your shoe,I am sure i could beat him and give him lesson he will never forget Relax and take a deep breath...

Just keep on giving him assurance that he is the only one for you and you will never replace him. Ask him what he want and he doesn't want and go with that path. Take away and avoid all those things that he may get jealous of. Show him that you are really faithful and not doing anything that will ruin your relationship. Also do often show your sweetness to him. And time will come that he won't get jealous anymore and he will fully trust you. Just think that what he is doing is just a show of love, just not the appropriate way. And you can make it appropriate by erasing all his doubts. You can do it. You should help each other. Good luck and have a nice day!

Hai jajel, well...you are blessed! That means your husband really loves you, and fear of losing you. With the kind of guy who likes to worship a loved like that, you must have to be careful, because it is poddible to misunderstanding. It is best to try to talk to your husband, and say to properly right channel his love to you, not through things like jealous. Just be happy... your husband really loves you so much!

Hi jazel! I hope you were not provoking your hubby. Is that the only reason why get gets jealous? Maybe your husband just need your total attention, sometimes. Maybe you have been spending too much time mylotting than being with him Maybe your husband needs some reassurance from you as his wife. If he is acting insecure and unresonable, just show him of your great love to him. Do not equalize his bad feelings because that will only ignite and end into a big fight. Just make some loving feeling, show him the love of a wife, come on! That is simple!