About either being blocked/delete or even being put on limited profile
By webgirl01
@webgirl01 (689)
United States
July 13, 2011 12:12am CST
Hello mylotters who can also be facebook users.
How do you guys react to being blocked or finding out about being blocked by a certain person? Do you know a way to find anyone who blocks you?
What if its about adding relatives/cousins - family related stuff?? especially teenager cousins even if you wanted to keep in touch with them?
How would you react if all your mutual friends are friends with the person that blocked you but you yourself are not his/her her friend anymore?
Also what's your reaction on being put on limited profile? Like you cannot see a wall/activity. It's profile without a wall.
Sorry to ask this..I'm somewhat in facebook depression mode on somethings. I know this is petty but this is how i feel.I also feel people are annoyed of my constant comments when they see it on status feeds..that's why i got caught from my bro who says i saw all your posts...blah blah blah - you've been on facebook all the day.. i hate when older sibs nag me about facebook this and that.
I wish to tell more, but i dunno.. but i can tell you all in all from relatives/cousins that have put on me on limited profile or being deleted and blocked.
I'll say I have been put in limited profile from my 1st cousin on my mom's side. She's 10 years younger than me, so she's 18 years old. When I had my old profile, she limited me. We have other mutual friends / cousins.
I had made a new facebook account, to also get a fresh start and to add some people that were from my old account. I also wanted to get rid of some people as well. Ever since I had my new account, my cousin wouldn't even add me yet. First one was I did try friend request, but she denied my request.. so i waited for a long time to add her again. I friend requested her but she hasn't responded to my friend requests, but she has accepted the friends that were also now mutual friends... i think it has to with me and her how we were in the past till now.. i feel she's too different...
Now, here I get a 2nd cousin who's a guy...he deleted/blocked me from my old profile.. and i think it's about commenting on their posts he gets annoyed of. so left him alone for awhile.. then on my new profile, he accepted me but message saying don't go posting on my posts cuz my friends get irritated...and then it was also his birthday comming up. I did post happy birthday... but yeah i stopped fb for awhile then came back.. and now he limited his profile on me as well. so i cannot comment on his wall, view his wall or whatsoever his wall...
Another one, out of the blue another young relative, i dunno but i don't comment on hers too much.. i posted a comment that it was nice seeing her at the wedding... yes she liked this status... but anyway i noticed she also blocked me on facebook. i was wondering around on my other accounts then all of a sudden, i was browsing to a cousin and she's there on fb, but i wouldn't know her reason, maybe its similar when my brother said something about news feeds. i guess people were annoyed that i do too many statuses or comments appear on their news feeds... maybe im too social networky...?? this is why i hate myself for being too much of a facebooky?? and now my brother says about i see all your comments when i go log on facebook...so you've been on computer the whole day?? i hate being nagged about my fb..
I guess its all my fault.. im too sentimental and want to keep in touch with cousins and family. maybe that is also reason why the people that were my friends on my old account and that they were on my friends on my new one for awhile, decided to delete me.
Let me know.. sorry for this facebook junk story.
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2 responses
@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
14 Jul 11
I honestly dont let it bother me...if they dont want me to comment they dont want me to comment...and people have every right to choose who is their friend or not on facebook.
I HAVE denied younger cousins in the past as friends. Several reasons why...one...i dont see the need to have them know my business ALL the time. They're too young in my opinion (13/14) to even have a facebook account esp when it lies about their age. and they post annoying content....or just as bad...some of the things my friends my own age post are not appropriate for a 13 yr old to view...so i deny them.
I've put people on limited profile before as well....people who get too nosey or start blabbing things all around town or to the rest of the family...its like WHY comment on every little thing a person says or does.
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@webgirl01 (689)
• United States
15 Jul 11
hey there! i see what you mean. I dunno. I guess im so hooked on to social networking with friends and also family.
If my cousins limit or block me from their facebook, does that really mean they hate me? I can think of some expression "love, her but gotta block her cuz she's annoying on fb" type of thing. just curious. I'm thinking of another perspective in dealing with this and not worrying if people block/delete whatsoever even if im related to them or friend with them, etc.
Sorry to ask. I just felt offended for being limited from one point to another. I am deactivating my old acccount and trying to transfer friends from there to my new one that i currently used.. Now i noticed that some of them that were from my old account don't want to or haven't yet added me on to my new profile. I will be deleting that old account soon.
I see how limiting works, so its their choice. But seems sometimes I feel left out or ignored by being limited from a cousin and everyone can view his/her wall. Oh wells.
I'm too sentimental on facebook.. i just feel that people find me too boring or not too common or too annoying w/ the comments or status feeds...i guess thats hard knocks of social networking...
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@kissmylense (152)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 11
until now, there is no such software that can see who block you from adding friend. Only FB admin know that. There is one software in FB that let us know who view our profile. That why your cousin can know you.
@webgirl01 (689)
• United States
13 Jul 11
hey there, have you used a software to know views profile? what software is that?
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@webgirl01 (689)
• United States
15 Jul 11
I see. Thanks. How often do you use social networking? hope you are enjoying mylot.
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@kissmylense (152)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 11
actually before i found mylots, everyday i surf FB. Now, i'm always with mylots. I also know why right. Beside we share our opinion we also can earn little money. so, let enjoys.
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