How you deal with failure?

You always learn from your mistakes regardless what they are. It's okay to fail sometimes, but it doesn't mean you are always going to fail

hello there.... pray... and forgive yourself if you dont get the things you want.. even if you fail dont let it define you... learn form it and strive even harder nxt time.... smile..things will get better if you start ur day with a positive outlook..=)

I don't think that anyone looks forward to failure. it is something to accept, get past and move on with. /sometimes you habe to look at failure as a new challenge to succeed. Just taking failure as it is and doing nothing about it is already failing.

I have read a book entitled "Dare to Fail". This book changed my perspective and view point on failures and failing. Failures and struggles are part of life. I do believe that you shouldn't be ashamed of failure and that you must embrace it. This will keep you open minded on the things that you can improve on. You learn when you fail. Mistakes are meant to teach you a thing or two. But of course, only fools are the ones that commits the same mistake or failure a number of times. I treat failure as a learning experience and move on for the next challenge. Being trapped in a failure is over reacting to it and I think is already self inflicted pain.

failure and success are two sides of same coin so considering only one aspect will not yield positive result instead we would be emotionally and mentally drifted .We feel depressed and disheartened after failure because of too much clinging with our vested interests and desires .Retaliating after failure state of mind with courage and hope is just opposite of being depressed and disheartened .So again we are repeating same thing but in different perspective and eventually under unfortunate conditions we will again succumb to sorrow and grief arising from failure . When we should plan to do some task , we should be more focussed on our capacity and ability to execute the task rather than focussing on appreciation and excitement to be obtained on accomplishing the task .

I guess I don't label experiences "failures" so much. Sometimes things don't work out, but it's often not due to anything the individual themselves caused. You just pick yourself up,dust yourself off and go on with your life in the most positive manner you can. If you did do something wrong, it's usually pretty self-evident and you learn something from it. I like to approach life by setting small goals and work towards reaching them one at a time. That way I get to pat myself on the back more often.

I have been through a lot of failures in my life.. and it was not easy to get back on your feet and be able to gain trust of the people around you. It was much harder to gain back confidence, but i was able to with the help of my husband and friends. It was hard to receive support from my family actually because it was them in the first place who never really thought i would make it..i was just so glad my husband was there and stood by me. It was hard admitting mistakes and apologizing but with God there, i was able to.

Failure? when i failed with something im always thinking that there's much better coming for me, and when im down my family and friends are there to cheer me up, for me failure is a challenge a challenge that you must succeed

I start off with quite a bit of cussing. This helps prepare the Universe for the challenge it may have of stopping me a second time. Then, of course, it is time to dissect the loss and make changes to the plan, or push myself to new levels if the plan is solid. If failure continues to be the outcome, after every option is exhausted, I consider that it is not meant to be . . . and try anyway. Instead of surrendering, I change the parameters and work at the final goal from a different angle. Sometimes it takes five or six tries to get into the bird feeder. If I finally find my abilities lacking, I hold my head up high knowing I tried everything!

I most often evaluate what went wrong. What can I do to make it right? What is the most appropriate way to correct my failure? Then it all depends on what kind of failure it is. Are there more people involved or is it something I've written or material that can be re-adjusted of a correction. I dislike personal failures, very much. I first get down or even depressed, while I evaluate my failure as the time goes I encourage myself I am going to correct it to make it properly right.

Success will not always come at the very first go. Failure is a part of life and we have to deal with this problem. I always looka at what possitives I gained and how far further I have progressed and also the places where I faultered and made a mistake. By checking my mistakes I try not to repeat them again and go on and try and be successful. I so how dont get let down easily by failure as I know that if there is a problem there will also be a solution. Its a matter of belief and motivating yourself. The best saying, "Try Try Till You Succeed".

Failure, whether you accept it or not is part of life. Sometimes we are successful on what we strive for but most often the turn out of events is antagonistic to our plans. We fail and we question and blame ourselves. But wouldn't that be harsh? At first,we must not allow ourselves to get entangled with thoughts of despair and hopelessness. We must hold on to the last fibers of strength and courage welded within ourselves by our faith on God. He knows the best for us. So why waste your tears in sourgraping and blaming yourself when you know you have done the best you can. Actually, for me there is no failure for one who tries. Just keep on trying, reviewing where there could have possibly a cause somewhere, then correct it. If that specific plan has nowhere to go but fail, then take another option. Learn from past mistakes. Move on in life with optimism. After all, failure are only for those who are afraid to make a try. Their fears will never elevate their status in life. I encourage you to make another attempt. Experiment new ways and methods in planning and doing things. Life is a series of 'trial and error' process until finally one day, you just find yourself savoring the aroma of success.

I had read a story of a successful businessman who went all throughout a thousand times of failure before he came out to what he is today. Failures happen to make us better. I always carry that notion around me to make me not feel bad when something goes wrong but instead take it as a challenge for improvement. When I was a child, I used to cry and let my tears show what failure have done to me. Later years passed, I realized that mourning about being failed is not really useful. It will make you a perfect loser in the long run. It's better to stop, rest and think for the possible reason that might have affect the supposed to be victorious accomplishment of the thing. As long as there is life and hope, once can still redo and redo the thing until it reach its apex of success. Success tastes sweeter when it is really challenged.

Take a break, review what i've done detail by detail and learn what went wrong so by the next time i plan i may add the things that i've learned from my past experience. When i am face wtih failure i keep in my mind that failures are good. I see it as a learning process, knowing that there is still a room for improvement. What is good with failures is that if we learn from it makes us better person.

How to deal with failure, for myself, is to see it as another opportunity for what I can do better next time. I used to get disappointed when things didn't work out the way I wanted, but now I just see it as another door of opportunity. Kind of like the Price is Right, but I don't get kicked off the show!