should i talk about my EX to her?

i have been with my boyfriend/fience for almost four years now and i wasnt comfortable with him even tlking about his ex at all for two years then i just got over it and didnt care anymore but he's never compared us and if he did not enough years in the world would make me get over it it's not really nice to compare your ex to your gf now....most women would take that offincive and leave and if she dosent then maybe yall have something.

Past is past and you should not compare. Think about what she would feel too and what if she compares you also to her ex boyfriend, what would you feel being compared to an ex? It will never be a good picture to see this, you should need to know more your gf and don't tease her by giving her a story of the past, what benefit does it make for your relationship if you keep on talking about the past? that relationship will never grow and stay further on if you are just stuck at the past, where is the future then.

I would suggest to NOT compare your girlfriend to your ex. Even if its to tell her how much better she is, it is very hurtful. I am sure you wouldn't like it if she was like "My ex this" "My ex that". I have never met a woman (myself included) that didnt get hurt when their boyfriend/fiancee/husband compares her to their ex. My fiancee used to do this when we first started dating and it stopped after I would start crying due to it hurting my feelings. Good luck!

Most women would find that hurtful.I would stop doing this or you might start having fights.Just think about your current girlfriend and leave the ex in the past where they belong.

I think that is down right wrong and also rude. If you love her please don't do that again. What if she compared your private parts to her ex.

Stop talking about your ex, because for her it hurts so much. Your Girlfriend thinks that your still in love with your ex. You never thinks about her feelings and not really love her if you'll do it over and over again.

No no no!!!! Even in a playful manner this is never appropriate if you ask me. Its a red flag for girls. It might seem like you're still attached or pining for this ex girl of yours which is totally unacceptable. Just don't do it. How would you feel if she kept bringing up boyfriends of her past and comparing them to you, regardless of whether or not its in a "playful" manner?