How to stop playing games?
By jaimz19
@jaimz19 (236)
Philippines
July 13, 2011 11:52am CST
I don't wanna get burned but I like playing with fire! It may not sound right but I guess I can say it about myself at some extent. I don't really like the feeling and I'm just wondering how other folks manage these situations which can potentially leads to problems.How do you do it? Is it always successful?
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@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
17 Jul 11
Well i think you'll only be able to stop playing games if you accept your flaws and all that. I don't think you enjoy hurting people as it seems your conscience is currently making you guilty.
I think you're not yet serious and haven't found the person you will really love and be with. If you don't want to be tied down at least have respect for other people when you are in a relationship. You already know that you like playing with fire.
It's possible you only like the feeling of being in love as opposed to actually loving someone. you like the giddy feeling, the butterflies in your stomach or the excitement if maybe you'll get caught or not. Only you can answer your question. Focus on who you are, think about why you are like that or how you became like that and since when. From there you should be able to help yourself recover from being addicted to playing around.
Good luck!
@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
17 Jul 11
Hm, but if in case you are literally talking about playing with fire... well i think there's also something like "poi" i think it's called. I think a higher level of doing poi involves dealing with fire.
I believe it just takes practice on your part. More practice will make you better at handling fire games better. Maybe surf the internet for more info about it or ask experts in the industry?
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
20 Jul 11
Well, for me it often depends on the situation and what I am supposed to be embarking on as well. There are many times if it is something serious that I am really needing to get done, it can be easy to procrastinate and put things off while the Best thing is to attack it head on and keep going until it is done. Not only does it help the situation, but everything looks better as well. And the feeling of knowing it is done is a huge relief as well.
