Judgeing our friends and people around
@Princelierocks (817)
India
July 14, 2011 2:32am CST
Hey friends, we have always been hearing about people passing judgement on others, but they first don't look at their self. Its better to mind our own business than to pass comments and judge others. When people do such things if the person is innocent, his/her name gets spoiled. I think we should always look at ourself before pointing others, what do you think about this guys, share your experiences.
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4 responses
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
18 Jul 11
I agree. We tend to judge people for things they do and say, but we don't like to be judged. Nobody likes to be told what to do, so whatever critism we have, it's better to keep to ourselves, for we have no business to judge them as we don't know them. Though we tend to see ourselves in others, however we don't learn, for we refuse to acknowledge it as well. With that, how are we able to take judgement from others?
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
31 Jul 11
Such is the ugliness of the human nature. Most of us think we are perfect creatures walking in an imperfect world full of imperfect people that we have to deal with.
If we only understand statistics, we will know we are all alike, and that none, really NONE of us is good.
Our only hope has to come from outside, and in my case, looking towards Jesus as my Hope and Savior. How about you?
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@Cactus2010 (167)
• India
14 Jul 11
Easy things are done frequently. Judging others is rather simple and requires no effort. So people follow easy path. Being a judge of your actions is extremely difficult and very much unconfortable so it is done far less.
Yes. One should always judge himself first and judge others only when necessary.
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
14 Jul 11
Thanks for the response nicely said hopes so it happens this way as u said.
@interactivelearning (451)
• United States
14 Jul 11
It`s funny or ironic how you look at this, I was just thinking about the same exact thing. I think we all can relate, It especially hurts if its someone your good friends with who is spreading things about you. Life is tough enough as it is without people passing judgement. The old saying dont throw stones at people in glass houses. If someone is making it there thing to comment and judge you, I am sure they are not looking in the mirror and if they are that consumed that they have to try to hurt you, Just Brush it off I know its easier said then done, but what are you gonna do stoop to there level... You guys n gals are too good for that.
Forget about these types of people
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
14 Jul 11
hey buddy thanks for the awesome response well literally such things are happening around world, we do get lowed down when someone comments or passes judgement, and that's awful thing, so as you said its better that we just brush things out, and just chill around enjoy life to the fullest.
@nunezme (43)
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16 Jul 11
This happens to me quite a lot. People pass judgment on me on the basis of what he/she hears about me from other people. In the pass I just don't give importance to such statement about me, now whenever I hear a slight negative statement about me, I confront and call the parties and ask them in front of all the parties who has heard or has spread out the judgment. I tell you, when you start doing this things in confronting the people right away, its funny to observe them, they don't even know where to begin or how to response, it saves me money by not going to court anymore and make them look like a clown.
