Is it something wrong with me or...
By uzunova
@uzunova (75)
Bulgaria
July 14, 2011 3:03pm CST
Sometimes I am unsertain and shaky person.I feel fear and instability.And I ask myself, are my parent made me so unsteady.No,I don`t blame them at all,I am just wondering.My father is very exacting man.He is never pleased of enything and likes to discover peoples mistakes.He is unhappy and that`s why make evreybody around him unhappy.But he is not aware of this.I can`t remember him encouraging me when I`m to do something.I love him,but it`s hard to live with him.Do you think I`m so insecure because of him?Do you have similar problem?Any advice to solve it?
2 responses
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
15 Jul 11
Did you know that no one really knows what they are doing until they have made enough mistakes to teach them what not to do?? You can not be afraid of mistakes unless you refuse to learn from them. Next, it doesn't matter what everyone else is doing. It's what you do that counts. It's your life. You make your choices. Sure listen to the advice of others but walk your own path. If people get bent out of shape because of this, well, isn't that their problem? You are much more capable than you realize. Get out there and do it. Stop worrying.
@gogierm4ge (398)
• United States
15 Jul 11
I have heard of a lot of people who don't like to be wrong. I would suggest try and find out what he doesn't like and likes and adapt to it. If he likes to figure out mistakes maybe make less mistakes to get rid of the habit.
