I'm gettin' married, What should I do to be stressful free?
By Lory
@miranda85 (48)
Philippines
July 15, 2011 7:59am CST
Three more months, My BIG day is almost here..., I have this feelin' of worrying on things which i can't explain. It seems like a long time of waiting. My excitement keeps me to think a lot, (what if?) I'm also afraid of what gonna happened. What should I do not to worry on things?
1 response
@THEcreationist (837)
• India
15 Jul 11
Hi, miranda. I am not married so I think it would hard for me to imagine the confusions going through your mind. But, I can give you a piece of advice. It is not the worries that solve our problems but it is the effort. So, if you have a genuine problem among those "what ifs" you have been thinking, three months is a good span of time to work on preparing for such situations. But, I guess many of your worries are just because of your fear of adjusting to new conditions or due to your enthusiasm for a new life. This is natural. To get over them, just engage yourself in your favorite activities, or be in company of your acquaintances/family most of the time.
And remember, you are not the only one going through this phase. Almost everyone gets over them. If they can, why cann't you?
@miranda85 (48)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
thanks creationist, yeah you're ryt, if they can, why can't i. I am just beginning to make things one step at a time, and trying not to worry at all.
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