Money = Friends??
By darapmonsta
@darapmonsta (653)
India
July 15, 2011 8:10am CST
Heyya MyLotters,
I want to tell you all that you guys are doing very well here as i wasn't available for past 3 months today i see the change os scenario here one mylot. people who were with low rank 3 months before are now in thousands and lakhs.
I have also seen one thing that now people are not discussing about any stuff other than money. as it was 3 months before there was so much people were discussing here and it was fun. Although we know that every MyLot user is either a part time or full time online money maker so it is to be happen. I can also see the day when there will be only one interest Money.
Okay Today i am not going to talk about Money i am going to talk/ask something about Friendship.
Few Months Back i was out of my town for schooling, as i was living alone there so my Father used to send me money regularly for my expenses. I used to save the Money from it there. By the end of school i had saved so much money that I can by two iPhone-4Gs. But i came back home with all that money which i had saved. Home is fun, you have your own family, your friends, everyone knows you, it is where you were born, you grew up playing on those streets near to your house, etc.
After i reached here i started contacting everyone one by one to tell that that i am in town and lets meet up. I started remembering my old days where we had so much fun. In few days i started my meetings.
Meeting them almost after one year has really changed them, i saw something like they are more acting like grown ups and mature personality. now they don't talk about all old things like can i borrow this t-shirt from you or wll you come with do this? was useless. now i am blank pocket and not even going out with friends. now it feels me like money is all i need if i want my all friends back.
Is i really like that i want to know yours opinions, can't i get my friends back those old days where we used to have fun just moving on streets, playing, roaming and all?
1 response
@DualWebs (27)
• Lithuania
15 Jul 11
Dear Darapmonsta,
People changes. I was an open-minded person. However, when I entered the university in other town and lived in dormitory for two years (two more are waiting) I changed a lot. I've became close-minded and don't even wanted to communicate with other students. What is more, I don't even wanted to know their names. I've always been alone and knew that everything I have to make myself without asking other students for help (because I don't know them). I was going home to family and friends once every month and guess what - all of them admitted that every time I came back, something is different. I don't want to communicate with them, often ask them to leave me alone and etc. I changed a lot in communicating with others (lost my skills and became close-minded). Now I don't want to meet my friends like Your friend don't want to meet You. And money has absolutely nothing to with it. I became more grown up than I was earlier. Your friends became too.. Now they have something to achieve and don't want to be interrupted like myself. Now they are acting more like an acquaintances and not as friends. It's only the past now. Sorry to hear this though... Good luck and be like them - have something to achieve if you know what I mean.
@darapmonsta (653)
• India
15 Jul 11
Brother i too have something to achieve in this life because life is of no use if yu don't acheive something great. And i think it is with everyone. But what i was talking is Why people change, as if you see my example before we didn't need any money to play, to have fun or to enjoy our lives but now a days they only call me to meet if they have some plan for movie or Clubs where every one would pay their own shares. Payment is not much important for me but as you read above when all my oney was finished they don't even ask me for anything. They just know me when i will throw moneywith them. Now it feels me more like i don't even know them.
I really miss those old Gold days when we had quality time. I keep looking at those photos which we had snapped during our fun days. They didn't need any money they just want my apperance but now they just ned money with me. because where ever they go it is charged so everyone pays their own money.
I spend all my money whatever i have saved in my hostel but i don't think i enjoyed more than those old days. Now i know why people keep saying it 'Wish I could get my old days Back'