How about being a bad parent?

@SomeCowgirl (32191)
United States
July 15, 2011 3:31pm CST
I just walked into a room where someone was watching t.v., one of those reality doc shows. Well the question was "A child comes into the emergency room having swallowed dirt, what does the doctor think the cause of this is?" the answers were : early onset diabetes, anemia, and something else I forgot. Well I said "how about dumb parents that can't watch their own kids or have the responsibility to find someone who will watch their kids? What do you guys think about this? The child should not have been in the situation where they could swallow the dirt!
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
17 Jul 11
kids go outside, and a small child can have dirt in hand, in mouth and down before anyone can react... and I think the other reason is PIKA, a disorder of eating/swallowing non-food things... You can be watching them like a hawk and they can pick up and eat things in an eye blink - unless you park a child inside in front of the TV all day, every day, they are going to have to get into dirt once in a while I've heard the saying that you have to eat a peck of dirt before you die... most of that is eaten before you are 5
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@GardenGerty (160665)
• United States
20 Jul 11
If you park them inside in front of the television they will pick fibers from the carpet to eat, or go find the cat food for a snack.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
20 Jul 11
or the cat box...
@rowantree (1186)
• United States
16 Jul 11
I think we've all ate a little dirt! Depends on how much the child swallowed. Kids playing outside, decide to eat the dirt, that's definitely not being a bad parent, that is called kids being kids! I'm guessing you're not a parent. I don't know where you grew up, but I grew up in Indiana. We munched on grass, we ate wild grapes, mulberries, apples, crab apples. We even pulled twigs apart and ate the weird substance inside like gum. I don't recall ever scooping up some dirt and eating it, but I'm sure I've eaten a little bit! I do know that eating dirt can cause lead poisoning if the dirt contains lead and it can also contain worms or something. I wonder what the doctors' diagnosis was? I think eating dirt and craving ice are both signs of anemia, but not sure about the dirt part.
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@Galena (9110)
18 Jul 11
I used to LOVE cooking apples when I was little. and completely unripe apples. hell, I used to drink vinegar from the bottle. I've never exactly had a sweet tooth. I quite agree. people keep their children far too clean these days, and their health suffers for it. I can remember there being ONE child at my school who was athsmatic. now it's far more than that in each class.
16 Jul 11
There's an old English saying that we should all eat "a peck of dirt" (a peck being a quarter of a bushel, of course...). I, too, grew up as a normal kid should, picking up worms, biting into cooking apples (and regretting it), swallowing a bit of dirt, pulling a carrot out of the ground and eating it, chewing grass (after checking it didn't smell of dog pee) and so on. My immune system is formidable because of it... you should see some of the junk I eat without repercussions! A lot of modern kids are too protected by everything being wrapped in foil, sterilised and untouched by human hands, in my opinion. I'm not saying they should be fed on mud, mouldy vegetables and a kilo of rotting fish intestines, but a little dirt certainly won't hurt. Perfectly normal.
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@AmbiePam (92719)
• United States
18 Jul 11
Are you kidding? It's impossible to keep your kid out of everything. I stuck a pearl up my nose once. It was because of my own childhood stupidity, not because my mom was not watching me. There is also a condition called PICA - and kids put everything in their mouth to eat, including dirt. I'm not a parent. But no way in the world can a parent keep their child out of everything. Not unless they tie the kid to their wrist. Even then I don't know. Kids are kids and they are going to do stupid things and get in stupid situations.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
18 Jul 11
Well I know that this happens, but my concern was that the child is outside. When I have a kid outside I try to keep a vigilant eye on them. I know kids will and do often put things in their mouth they shouldn't have. I gues I Was a bit hasty in this discussion but I went with my first reaction and came flying in here to make a discussion about it.
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@Galena (9110)
18 Jul 11
I diagnose.... Childhood. children put all sorts of things in their mouth, play in the garden. my cousin always had a habit of eating worms. eating dirt isn't so shocking. people are too obsessed with cleanliness. I'd rather eat dirt than bleach or cleaning products.
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@AmbiePam (92719)
• United States
18 Jul 11
Bleach - now THAT would be bad parenting. Dirt not so much.
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@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Jul 11
That is about the silliest thing I have ever heard of. Kids used to eat dirt and it was a common happening. Kids are curious. I don't think it has anything to do with dumb parents. I don't think I have known of a child that wasn't curious that did this sort of thing.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
15 Jul 11
Sometimes children can play while putting dirty hands in your mouth. But I do not think this is a bad parent, yet we will not have eyes in the back. It happens but should not allow these things to occur. I think that a parent should not be bad but simply a man who teaches the children to respect and love to have his respect. Interesting discussion. Have a nice day ~
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• United States
15 Jul 11
As times are hard right now it is hard to find someone to keep watch of a child. I know this because of my family member with parents. I usually babysit when I can since I'm always working. Times are hard and babysitters are just expensive and hard to find. I don't think it is a bad parent, just bad things happen sometimes. Kids are kids, they'll get into everything, even when your not looking.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
15 Jul 11
I know that kids can be kid and can get dirt and stuff in their mouths but this must have been a copious amount of dirt if they had to go to the ER and if it made it on television. A little bit of dirt doesn't hurt anyone, after all we all breathe it in every day whether we realize it or not, but even so this parent it just makes me think wasn't paying attention at all.
16 Jul 11
You'd be surprised at what people go to hospital for. I've been lying in an ER while incapacitated from back pain and seen people there with their kid because the little prince(ss) has... a sniffle. Oh me, oh my, the child must be dying because it has a cold...
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
24 Jul 11
When my kids were little I would never have thought of taking my kids to the ER for eating dirt. We just figured it was part of growing up. They made mud pies and would at least tried them. I doubt that I would even take them to the ER even today if they ate dirt. I believe in keeping kids clean but I also believe you can go overboard with it. Letting kids get dirty helps their immune system. I believe that some parents are over protective. It's called helicopter parents. I think even the play grounds are become over safe.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
27 Jul 11
No having a kid ea t dirt doesn't mean you are a bad parent.
@GardenGerty (160665)
• United States
20 Jul 11
I think it depends on the age of the child. You cannot watch them twenty four hours a day. It is correct that a desire to eat dirt can indicate a mineral deficiency. It can also just indicate a child exploring the world. Yes, you have to try to keep an eye on them, but my daughter liked to put rocks in her mouth, and I would be after her to get them out, quickly. She never swallowed them, but she did put them in her mouth til I could get them out.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
18 Jul 11
Well they are almost wrong about it my old doc told me when my kid ate sand that something missing in diet and it wouldnt hurt her at all and it didnt she is now 45 years old never hurt her abit
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
19 Jul 11
yup weird dont think I would have a craving for toilet paper lololol
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
18 Jul 11
It's really odd what things that aren't really edible can mean when it comes to diagnosis. I know I've read somewhere that if a person eats toilet paper they lack iron, I had to look that up for a family member not too long ago.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
22 Jul 11
I know that kids can be kids. And they could test their limits like playing with dirt, and maybe even tasting it. But you're right that it is also the parent's responsiblity to tell the kids that dirt is not for eating. And if it leads to this, then surely something's missing parent-wise.
@asyria51 (2861)
• United States
15 Jul 11
the other thing was probably pica it is something that a lot children go through when they eat something strange. most out grow it. My child has eaten dirt, it happens. She however has not eaten so much that she had to go to the emergency room over it. That was one of the questions that I asked my doctor when my child was little and was just starting to crawl. what do i do if she eats dirt? The doctor said nothing unless you know that you just put pesticides or someother chemical on it. i do agree that if the child is eating enough dirt to warrant going to the doctor than someone is not supervising well enough.
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