False alarm tears
@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
Philippines
July 16, 2011 6:30am CST
Last night I thought that my husband is still cheating on me when he already promised me that he will never cheat again. Upon discovering something without confirming if it's right and since he's also far from me and it's impossible to ask it personally, I had no choice but to cry.Confused,broken hearted and losing hope that he will do it again and again I am really down and hopeless.Duhhhh I'm just wasting my tears because I just discovered that he is not cheating on me, it's hard to explain how but I'm happy that he's keeping his promises.I just hope that it will be forever. But one thing I've learned from that is I learn how to ask guidance from God and prayed deeply and sincerely.
How about you have you cried because you thought you have been cheated but realized later that it's not true? LOl
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4 responses
@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
21 Jul 11
Hi there! We've had our ups and down. But I trust my hubby and I know he trusts me all the same. We always talk about everything, even those and especially, things concerning other men/women that may lead us astray. Keep the faith Mack and trust your husband. If he truly loves you, he will not want to hurt you in any way.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
17 Jul 11
Actually no I have not had to cry falsely but can say my tears were warranted. I am glad your situation was a false alarm and do hope all can always be well with you and your husband. Having been cheated on myself I do know what it is like.
I am glad you two are working things out and hope wish you many blessings for a long lasting future. I on the other hand could not work out my situation and it is better this way for me as it would have been way too miserable as it takes two to want to work things out. Which is what it sounds like the two of you are doing, therefore, faith and trust is important.
@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
It's really hard to be cheated. And it's hard to trust again once it's already broken. But since we love them we will give them chances but the sad thing is they will take those chances for granted. I just hope they will realize sooner before it's too late.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
Lol. That sounds like me 4 years ago. Hahaha when my first daughter was born we were having such problems, i know hubby was texting someone.. his girl bestfriend and it got to a point where i cannot contain my jealousy anymore..and was reading text messages which i cannot believe he would tell another woman other than me. I got hurt and confronted him and even to a point where i made him choose. Well, he promised no such thing..and i know he kept his promise but the feeling that he might do it again is still there.
Though he did kept his promise and i know he is sincere..why? because now he is the one being so jealous of me. weird because i never did anything. 
@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
Same problem here.But he promised that he will refrain from doing it again.How long are you married with your husband? I know we're in the stage of adjustment.And I know that we still have many things ahead to face. How did you manage to trust your husband after he did those stuff? I would like to ask 1 thing personal if it's okay with you. Didn't you doubted even once that he will do it again when you're not around. Did he really kept his promises.You never caught him again even once after after he promised?
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
It do happens when we are being betrayed by someone we love so dearly,we tend to have doubts always,suspicion is always there.
Just try to trust him again since he promised to be faithful.
It would be difficult on your side if you cannot trust him again,thu it's not easy to bring back the trust that once broken.
For the sake of your relationship...do what you can and yes,pray and asks guidance from the Lord above.
@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
Yeah right. Once trust is broken it will be hard to trust that person again and again especially if he did it many times. Even we give them chances we still have doubts in our mind that they will do it again and again. I don't know how will I stop him from doing it again. Every time when I caught him he will be sorry and promise not to do it again but still did it again.I just hope he will have his own realization in everything bad things he does. I've given him ample of chances. Just pray that he will keep what he had promise.
