Have you ever been rude to someone nice to you?

I would have done that as well. Might not be intentionally but in ignorance or carelessness. I am also not that good with words and tends to spurt out a few phrases that don't go well with many. Most of the time I am quick to say sorry but sometimes it takes time to realize that your behavior at some particular instance was not appropriate and uncalled for. I am so for all those instances...

I do try to be polite all the time, but have realized from time to time, that oh my that was quite rude of me. Then I think for a minute what caused me to be this way to find that the person sort of instigated my reaction. Though I always try to be polite, I am human and can be pushed from time to time. So I do try and simply walk away as it will linger in my mind and frustrate me as it is not in my nature to be rude.

For me if you follow Christ love shown in his disciple then you are friendly to each and everyone on us.

Everyone is entitled to choose his/her friends. But one need not be rude. He/she may remain very formal and other person will get message to stay away without feeling bad about it. As for hurt cause by somebody, there is no point in hurting others for that.

Yes i have been rude many time.and specialy to who care very much.bcoz they are much posessive to me.but soon i realize that its wrong.so i never waste time to say sorry.many time we don.t want to be rude but when we are in bad mood and don.t want to do or say anything but other try to force us or any other reason which make us upset.then the nearest person take out our rudness.i know its realy bad but some time it happens even nobody want to do it.

I totally understand your situation, people wear persona all the time to protect themselves. But to think in another way round, we wear persona too! We may not be sincere all the time! Why do you have to be rude to those people? You and I are educated people, according to the book we have read, or what our parents and teachers have taught us, we learnt to be people with courtesy. We are kind-hearted, we forgive people who made mistakes before, and we learn to interact with them again. If you really think people around you are insincere or approach you just on purpose, you can just ignore them and stay at a very safe distance from them! Yes, I agree that it is not a must to respect others, but you do this because you are respecting yourself to be an educated person! So, be tolerant, and don't feel guilty when dealing with those people, or otherwise you will be easily fall in their traps!

I'm usually pretty friendly and easy to talk to to but I have had my bad days or something will rub me the wrong way and I'll growl a bit. If it is completely uncalled for then I do apologize. I don't like myself much when treat others disrespectfully or rudely. Are you a bad person? probably not. I don't know you at all but I don't know too many truly bad people so I doubt that you are. You do sound a little bit bitter about being betrayed. I hope that you find a way to get beyond that and realize that you can't base your opinions of everyone on one bad experience or even 20. I've been betrayed a lot too but that just makes me appreciate the good and trustworthy people in my life all that much more. I hope you find a way to overcome this because by shutting out the ones that would potentially hurt you, you are also shutting out the ones that could be really good people in your life.

When being a stupid teenager, I'd get so angry that couldn't control. Very stupid and regret a lot, I actually reach out some friends to say I was sorry :D

ayis12 I believe I was that way when I was younger. If I even thought for a minute that another girl or someone was being fake with me. It did not phase me to be rude and believe me everyone would know it! I feel now as I am older I try not to be rude. So when I do come across fake people. Now I can politely tell them to have a nice day and continue on. Nor do I make any accusses why, and for the record it doesn't make you a bad person at all.

yes i have been rude to my best friend.