What Would You Say?

Yes I would marry the man I married almost 20 years ago again if given the chance. Although we have our ups and our downs, we still love each other very much. Right now I'm not too happy with him so it's one of our down times but I still love him with all of my heart and he loves me with all of his heart which is what matters most.

I am not a guy but I guess I would say: Yes. The reason is that given the same life and personality I would make the same choices and mistakes again. Unless I am re-born with a different circumstances and personality...

I think in this day and age that it really depends on the circumstances. I wouldn't marry any of the men I was married to previously. Oh, it was great in the beginning but things go steadily down hill from there. So, no I would not remarry and I not share the same view as this man.

hello Banny, NO NO NO! Simply because he cheated me _th times and i don't love him anymore Like my father said..better live alone than hurting myself again and hurt by the same person.

yes. the answer is same because i know my partner. i will be saved of the botheration of getting myself used to a new person. good day.

I would really admire the person who will say that he or she will marry the same person again but i won't hate the person who will say no. The answer to this question will depend upon the life of the person with his/her spouse. For me, i would rather say that I would never marry if given a chance because married life is not for me. I have my own reason which i rather want to remain secret.

I think I would. It depends whether they mean we'd be starting all over again or whether it is the person we are with right now. We've both changed a lot over the last decade. And to be honest, sometimes it's been really hard. It's worth it, but if I had to do it all over I don't know if I would do it.

I think my mother would've said yes. I don't think my brother would've, since he divorced the gal he married... since I've never married... well, hard to say since I never did or even "shacked up" with a guy... I've made some mistakes that I wouldn't want to repeat, but on the whole, I could've made worse choices...

why not? I've been married to the same man for 29 years and knows him in and out. Though he is a habitual drinker that often provoke my emotion and drive me nuts but he is not all that rotten. There is still a part of him that can be salvaged which I can tolerate and live with. It is better to live with the devil you know than the devil you don't know.

I may sound like a woman for saying this, but that's a TERRIBLE thing to say about his partner. He's basically saying he'd only marry her again because it's easier, not because he's particularly in love with her. She's the safe option. Less effort required. As for me, yes I'd choose the same lady again and, despite the fact that I know life would be a LOT easier if I didn't (for a variety of reasons I won't go into here), she's worth every single difficult minute. Even knowing everything I know now, some 18 years after I first met her, I'd do it all again, exactly the same because without her, it'd all make much less sense.

i have never met this problem.as for me.i think about actual problem.if i still love him.i would like to marry the same man.as the man said,i know each other for long time now and know how to deal with some problem between us.but if we could not adapt to live each other,i could not think about this problem which i marry the same person.

Yes,absolutely I will marry her again and again.We've been married for more + years now I will do it again to renew our vows sometime soon. Married life has it's ups and downs, disagreement between couples but that's part of putting two different individual in one roof, each having their own character traits and principles.AS a couple we have our own share too but that won't prevent me from marrying her again.

hello BB, The man has a point a very good point that is also what I am going to say If you have a good relationship why will you settle for someone and start all over again? I rather stick with the person I choose maybe he can't be perfect what matter most is I LOVE HIM happy mylotting

If ever I'll get married and be asked, if ever I would get a chance to remarry and choose who to marry, I think, I would marry the same person I married. Same reason. If I'll look for another, We'll start knowing each other again and it would take a great effort and a lot of time just to know each other very well. :)

hi bannybanzie of course as he was he first and maybe only person outside of my adult son who loved me as I was, not wanting me to be taller or shorter or heavier or slimmer or outgoing or shy,just accepted me the way I was ,he wanted no changes, he loved me for my good and bad points, he loved me. all of me. now even my parents had not done that.So yes I would marry him over in a flash. wow that would be lovely if it could happen lol lol

I would say the same as the man. But not primarily because i don't have to start dealing with a stranger again, but because i love my husband very much. I would go all over again, even if it means going through the first early years of marriage where we always argue a lot.