How to aprroach and make a relationshif ?

I didn't know mylot became a dating site, or love match website. Oh well, since you are lonely, and you already broke up with your ex. Why not send her a message, or im her a message. Ask her phone number or something since you both living within a same city. I guess that she won't mind give it to you if you talk nicely to her right?

Maybe she did not get the message as sometimes we do send PM's and they do not go through. I would probably try one more and see if she responds. If you have interacted in discussions she might reply as a friendly gesture then slowly introduce yourself and hope it all goes well. Don't be shy as being friendly would be the first step and good luck, as you never know this may be the girl for you.

It is a very tough question, as in my opinion relationships need physical contact, physical meeting. Online relationships are virtual, they need to be consolidated in real life.

Fitriadi...My experience when I was in your position was to just do it. Start out by introducing yourself. You have nothing to lose at this point, but if you don't act now you may lose the chance to. Everyday you wait is another day that maybe she is taken by another...Sooooooo my friend...go for it now!!!

Hmm I think this could be difficult because sending people messages on the internet can seem impersonal and even a little bit weird. I think you should try strike up a conversation with her during a discussion rather than sending here a personal message as it could seem to a bit too forward. I hope my advice helps and good luck my friend.

Hi,Fitriadi..The new girl did not reply on u, maybe she just has no such a strong feeling to u. Probably,she is confused too. Now, both of u need calm down and think about it. How can u give her a better life?

you know what brother you are here on earth not to waste time ou are here to become something you have to do something for what god has sent you on earth, don't waste your time in girls and relationships, it all sucks they directly or indirectly affect your success, Try to avoid as much as you can because whenever you will get a girl in your life, you will be found busy on phone all the time instead if you invest that time in doing some job or working for something you will not only get paid but you will acheive something too.

Hi friend, just as your experience, i too had a long distance relation, although we were in the same country but were separated by quite a long distance. To be exact, me in south India and she in north India!. Unfortunately for me, this relation didn't work out due to the same reason as you stated above, long distance!. Now, from my experience, for long distance relations to work, both the partners should have deep understanding of each other and should also have lots of trust for each other. But, to achieve this in a long distance relation is like 1 in 1000, so tough!. Saying that, there are long distance relations that has been successful but, better to have a short distance one where, you could see each other whenever you want. In your case as of now, i think you could keep sending her friendly messages and wait for her reply. Don't expect her to reply to you too quick, just give her time and see how she goes about. For sure, if she finds your messages interesting, she should reply to you. So, try and sent her messages that makes her reply to you :). Good luck bro!

hi there, sorry to hear that you and your gf broke up... it is really hard to maintain a long distance relationship. are you saying that you have found somebody else here in myLOT that you are attracted to? that's cool, man. i have yet to hear a blossoming relationship in mylot but from what you shared it seems that she is not replying to your messages? if you are living in the same country but in different areas i suggest you meet with her personally if you have the time,. go for it this time! - kat